Aqeeqa

Q: Aqeeqa should be done by parents. If parents are poor and husband wants to do wife's aqeeqa, is he allowed to do so? A wife whose aqeeqa has been done by husband is she allowed to eat or keep that meat for herself? What will be the procedure of her aqeeqah? Is it a must for her to shave her hair completely? Please answer as soon as possible. Can you answer according to Imam Shafi?

Urine incontinence

Q: I am suffering from urine incontinence. It is very difficult for me to perform salaah without urine coming out. Do I qualify as a ma'zoor? Please explain to me how a person becomes a ma'zoor.

Exposing one's satr in a room wherein there is an Islamic calendar

Q: I always put Islamic books away and don't leave them uncovered incase they get disrespected. I would like to know if an Islamic calendar with no Quraanic Ayahs or Hadeeths are on there, and it just says "Islamic calendar" and has dates are hanging in ones bedroom and if one dresses really immodest like nude and seminude etc. is it disrespectful? And what is the ruling if one thought that it might be disrespectful but ignored the thought and continued to leave the calendar hanging?