Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: Is It necessary/compulsory for husband and wife to live together if/after they consummated the marriage (via having jimaa) and if they don't live together will they get sin?

Q: Is it a major sin for a woman to masturbate? Could you please provide references from the Quran Sharif and Hadith for the satisfaction of my heart and mind? I have heard that it can cause weak memory and eyesight as well as other health problems.

Q:

1. Is it permissible for my husband to drink/swallow my milk intentionally and unintentionally. I am breastfeeding his son. Whilst making love to me he squeezes my breasts and sucks my nipples very hard and there is milk all round his mouth and I know he is also taking it inside.

2. Am I responsible to make food for my father in law when my husband calls me to bed to fulfil his needs and satisfy him? 

Q: Is the use of condom permissible for intercourse between husband and wife to prevent pregnancy in order to have enough time for the existing kids instead of having more children for their better training in accordance with Shareyeh?

Q:

1. I masturbate when I am very stressed. How can I stop this habit.

2. The clothes that I have on during masturbation, if nothing comes on it do I have to wash them?

Q: I wanted to enquire if it is permissible for me to use the coil or any other contraceptives. The reason being is that I got married 8 months ago and ever since I have been facing alot of problems at the hands of my mother in law. Problems were increasing day by day which included abuse, emotional harassment and insult. My husband wasn't able to do much either and it all resulted in big arguments with my husband too.

Now its been 2 months since I'm at my parents house and the problems just increased and went to such an extent where my marriage was on the verge of ending. Im trying to makeup with my in-laws with the help of my father in law, however I dont think I can have children after all these issues. I would like to see if my husband has realised his mistakes and actually changed in the long run before I plan to have children. My husband isnt willing to understand this point of mine but I think I cant risk my life or my childs life as if things remain the same I will have to seek khula which I hope doesn't happen.

Thus would it be permissible for me to have the coil inserted or use any other methods of contraceptive without my husband's consent and it being in his knowledge. I hope this isnt classed as me decieving my husband.

Q: Can you please verify the famous statement that "it is sunnah to have sexual relations with ones wife on a thursday night".

Q: I am a Sunni Muslim and I had a question about a Sunni - Shia marriage. Am I violating my belief if I compromise with my shia wife to not name my child the names of the first three caliphs?

Q: I have to ask one question relating to Razaa'at or foster relationship. If an adult person of any age or infant child or child of any age drinks the milk of any kind and type of animal, whether it is the milk of cat, cow or any animal which gives milk either the animal is halal or haram, so is the relationship of Razaa'at or foster relationship established with the animal or it's only established with the milk of human beings?

Q: I have two daughters from a previous marriage. Is my Husband their (stepfather) a Mahram to my daughters? Is he allowed to Hug them?