Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Seeking forgiveness from abortion

Q: A widowee man of 50 year old marries a unmarried woman of 40 years in 2010. After marriage with in 2 months woman gets pregnant. Due to age and other circumstances man request woman to abort the pregnancy. Thereafter 3-4 months tablets were taken to avoid pregnancy. But after that woman did not conceived. They lived together with adjustment with intermittent dispute. Performed Haj in 2013 and Umrah in 2017. Since Sept 2017 both husband and wife are staying separate from each other and heading for divorce. Now as per Islam man had done major sin of Allah by aborting in 2010. Man's questions are:

1. Before divorcing do it is mandatory/compulsory for him to get forgiveness from wife for his requested abortion in 2010?

2. Can wife demand any monetary compensation against his sin of not giving her rights to become mother?

3. Do man will not be forgiven by Allah after death if wife do not forgive for his sin of abortion?

Validity of the nikaah

Q: A woman once tried to make a man fall in love with her. She said a dua, blowed into water and then gave the water to a man to drink to make him fall in love with her. She understood that she has done a wrong thing. She repented. Now whatever she has done, does it make marriage between the above man and woman prohibited?

Nikaah via text messages

Q: I have done a nikkah on message with my fiance without the presence of any witness but i took the snapshots of those messages as a proof but later after 8 months due to some misunderstandings i gave a tallaq to her later one more time i said "i end this relation right now in my full senses"(i didn't used the word tallaq second time) and later after one month due to misunderstandings i again gave tallaq 3rd time (by using the word tallaq) all these were done on messages i have snapshots of nikkah and tallaq as well and now we both are very afraid that if that nikkah was true or was acceptable according to shariah and if it is so the tallaq that i gave her was acceptable or not please help me out if both things were right then is there any way we both could be togather again and get the nikkah done or not??

Touching one's mother with lust

Q: I am 20 years old and I was lying next to my mother while my legs were touching her legs (out of compassion) though I didnt have any bad intentions. Suddenly a very little bit movement occured in my penis. I mean a very little bit erection. I am very worried whether hurmat musahara has occured or not. If it has taken place according to Imam Abu Hanifa (rahimahullah), cant I take a fatwa of other scholars because it will save my family as we have a well established happy family.

Calling the groom by his step fathers name instead of his fathers name at the time of nikaah

Q: One of my friends is going to get married soon Insha Allah but we have a little query which is creating embarrassment in our minds. His actual father's name is not written under his CNIC but the name of the person his mother is married to after his father's death is written. Will Nikaah be valid as per shariah if the nikaah reciter says his step father's name as per CNIC instead of his real father's name? Kindly please clear the confusion.