Q: My husband gave me talaaq on 2 separate occasions. He said the first time it was out of anger and didn't mean it. Does it count as 2?
I'm currently in iddah for 1 week. He told me he revoked this talaaq. Does this mean we are back in nikkah even if I don't go back home or accept?
Q: Husband and I are divorced. When it comes to the baby... who should he liase with regarding her wellbeing, visitation and her needs for the month? Should he contact my parents or should he contact me?
Q: I requested my husband to give me permission for Khula a day before my menses date, although he didn't want to give khula he accepted my request and said ‘I give you permission for Khula’. I tried to return his haq meher but he refused to take it and said he forgives it. Upon insisting he took 5000 out of 5 lac.
After that I came back to my parents house and I assumed my Iddah started, after few hours the same day I had my menses.
Please note all this happened only between me and my husband. There was no witness except Allah.
My question is, is my Khula valid? Are we no longer husband and wife? Because as per my husband he said he didn’t want to give khula from his heart, he only gave his consent on my request and it might not be the right procedure for Khula. Please guide me.
Q: I gave 1st talaaq in 2011, 2nd in 2017 and then 6 months passed without reconciliation. After the matter was intervened by families we went to an aalim in Pakistan and he made a new nikah with a new mahar.
Today I gave her 3rd Talaaq. I don't want to stay with her anymore but she is insisting to keep the talaaq secret so that she will do a halaala after 90 days.
She is also refusing to leave my house after iddat. We both are from Pakistan.
Do I have an obligation to tell her family that I have divorced her. What can I do if she refuses to leave my house after iddat period.
Q: I did not know that after giving one talaq the marriage is still intact.
So after divorce I said to myself that my nikah is not anymore and once said to my wife that I can't talk to you now... Is this one talaq ?
Q: My husband and I had an argument on WhatsApp. He messaged me and texted that I'm leaving u from today..I'm blocking u all and said I'm breaking over the relationships. At that same moment I left the car as I was traveling and I asked him u divorce me... u using these words. He said are u mad .. did I used divorce...
He swears to Allah he didn't intended divorce by that... He just threatening me and he just mean I will leave you but didn't leave. His sister saying she ask mufti and mufti said no divorce occur. What could I do, should I believe them?
Q: I wish to inquire regarding the maslah of nafaqah of a divorced woman who is sitting in iddat. Is nafaqah necessary on the husband in the following situations:
1. A woman was given talaaq baain or talaaq raji. She left her husband’s house and went to stay with her mother.
2. A woman was given talaaq bain or talaaq raji. The house which both husband and wife were staying in belongs to the wife. The wife left her home to go and stay by her parents home.
A: In the above two situations, when the wife left the house of her husband or her house and went to her parents house then she will not be entitled to receive nafaqah.
Q: I gave my wife divorce in anger three times yesterday. Are we divorced or we can stay together?
Q: I have been contemplating and reflecting a lot the past few months. We all know there is great Hikmah behind everything, Allah is The Most Wise... We would never be able to even comprehend His wisdom SubhanAllah.
I was pondering on something... When a man gives a woman the 3rd talaq, the woman becomes completely impermissible for him... She needs to marry another man, consummate that before and then she is able to go back to the former husband (this can't be planned out though).
As I said we would never be able to contemplate the wisdom of Allah. But I do ponder why that is... What is the reason for this SubhanAllah?
Is it so the woman can experience another marriage to someone else to see if he appreciates her etc? Is it a kind of punishment for the man for going so extreme to give a 3rd talaq. SubhanAllah I'm just pondering. I wish I knew the tafsir for this verse or if anyone has more knowledge on this please.
Q: I want to know separate or separation or separated those word are sareeh or kinaya?