Talaaq

Three talaaqs

Q: My husband first gave one talaq but we resume (ruju) our relation. After few weeks he gave 2 talaq in extreme anger which I didn't listen because he didn't say them clearly. When I said say out loud and clear he remained quite. Later he said I did't have the intention to give you talaq.

I have two kids of 4 and 5 years age. So what does Islam say in this situation if 3 talaqs are complete or we have to do another nikah because of kinaya talaq?

Khula in court

Q: I had nikah last year. No rukhsati. He lives in UK so went back to UK after nikah. Then he started insulting me because of another girl and told me that we should get separated. I tried to talk him out of it but he said that we are not a good match and he is not happy. I also talked to his parents but he kept saying we should get separated.

After few months his parents started pressurizing him so he said that he want's to keep the nikah but he had insulted me enough because of another girl that I said I want a divorce now. He said he will come to Pakistan and we will meet and if we don't feel okay then he will give me a divorce.

He came to Pakitan and we met for lunch for three times and then I said I want a divorce because he kept saying insulting things to me. He said he doesn't want a divorce.

I filed for Khula case in court. 3 notices were sent to him in UK and he came to Pakistan for the last hearing. We appeared before the judge and we had a reconcilliation session. He kept saying lies so I said to the Judge that I cannot live with this man. The Judge gave the order in my case and gave a Khula order. I also returned the haq meher.

Can you please tell me that my nikah is now terminated? Am I eligible for nikah?

Giving the wife a parting gift after divorce

Q: I am reading the kitaab (Handbook to a healthy Muslim marriage) after learning the fiqh of nikaah.

I'm on page 236... its explained that when a husband divorces his wife, he should provide parting gifts to his wife e.g. a set of clothing. It is the first time I'm hearing of this hence..

My question is, does this happen in our South African community and is the above also known as Mahr Mithal. My Apa taught us about Mahr Mithal from Behishti Zewar.

Revoking a talaaq

Q: I gave my wife talaq once and the fatwa council has approved the talaq on the 5th of May 2023 as irrevocable divorce talaq. My wife is in her iddat period and I wanted to ask that we want to get back together what is the best way to do so? Because I gave her one talaq. Her iddat finishes on the 5th of August.

Three talaaqs

Q: The problem is that 10 years ago I divorced my wife twice and 18 months ago I divorced one time and on May 16, 2023 I divorced three times. Now my wife and me are separated from each other. So I want to ask that divorce happen to me or not?