Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: For a female, is her father's mothers husband her mahram? (The fathers mother and this husband have children).

Q: I want to ask about the conditions of making waleemah halaal in detail. Is it obligatory to have sexual intercourse or any kind of intimacy of like kissing, smooching, touching etc. to make waleemah halaal under normal conditions? What if the waleemah is planned after 2 days of wedding, and the bride and groom or only bride wants some time to make understanding between both of them prior to any kind of intimacy. Would the waleemah be not halaal in that case? Please explain it in detail as I am so worried.

Q: I want to ask if a working woman can give her salary to her parents without the permission of her husband and can the husband bind her to use her own money to fulfill her own expenses if she is not giving any part to her husband?

Q: I got to know a person with a rare illness who is bedridden for years. I am willing to marry him but my parents consent is doubtful. Can I marry him to help him to protect his chastity? Please advise me on this.

Q: I was forced for a marriage, I never wanted to marry this man. So I consumed 120 sleeping pills. Unfortunately I did not die but due to the effect of the medicines I was not fully conscious. Under the influence of medicines my nikaah took place. I do not remember any single event of that day. Is my nikaah valid?

Q: I would like to know the Islamic ruling on engagement for a girl who is in purda.

Q: If mother slaps you on the knee and you have jeans on and no heat is felt no lust no desire no erection, does that constitute hurmat-e-musaahara. Been getting waswasa a lot. Please explain. I do not have any kind of lust towards my mother and will never. I am married alhumdulillah for over a month.

Q: Is it the husbands duty to provide for his wife? If so, what exactly is meant by provide? Does this include everything in the home?

Q: I would like to know what is the responsibility of the male and female when it comes to the wedding, home, photographer and honeymoon? More specifically who has to pay for things such as photographer and honeymoon?

Q: My wife and I Alhamdulillah are expecting the arrival of our first child and we do not know the sex. If it is a boy we chose the Name Ridhaa and if a Girl Liba. Are these names good names to keep? And also I want to find out what must be done with the afterbirth (placenta)?