Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Equality between wives

Q: Husband has 2 wives; one is a housewife and the other one is working. The husband said to the working wife that she should bear all the expenses by herself because she is working. What should be the distribution of nights as the working wife only visits on weekends and for the whole week the husband spends his time with the one who is the housewife.

Fulfilling the needs of one's wife

Q: When I got married, I used to live in a standard size room. When my sister got married, me and my wife moved to another room which is a smaller room. I gave up my room to my sister and her husband. Now my wife is making an issue to get back the same room which we used to live in before. What does Islam say about this?

Touching one's mother with lust

Q:

1. I know that if someone touches his mother with lust, it will break his parents marriage. I want to know if it is permissible for his (the one who touched his mother with lust) children/grandchildren to marry his brother's/sister's children/grandchildren? Are their children/grandchildren allowed to marry each other?

2. Can he (the one who touched his mother with lust) marry his mother's brother's daughter?

3. If the thought comes to mind that a perosn touched his mother with lust during his childhood, but he is in doubt whether he touched or not. What should he do now?

Husband working abroad

Q: I live in another country due to work. I can afford to look after my family but due to my parents and other family members I am forced to stay abroad and work to save money. My wife is not happy living separate. If I bring my wife here, I'm afraid my parents will get angry on me. What should I do in this situation?