Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Touching one's mother with lust

Q:

1. I know that if someone touches his mother with lust, it will break his parents marriage. I want to know if it is permissible for his (the one who touched his mother with lust) children/grandchildren to marry his brother's/sister's children/grandchildren? Are their children/grandchildren allowed to marry each other?

2. Can he (the one who touched his mother with lust) marry his mother's brother's daughter?

3. If the thought comes to mind that a perosn touched his mother with lust during his childhood, but he is in doubt whether he touched or not. What should he do now?

Husband working abroad

Q: I live in another country due to work. I can afford to look after my family but due to my parents and other family members I am forced to stay abroad and work to save money. My wife is not happy living separate. If I bring my wife here, I'm afraid my parents will get angry on me. What should I do in this situation?