Talaaq

Q: I gave 1 talaq so far to my wife. Now I don't have intention to give the 2nd. But I am not having intercourse for the last 2 mensuration periods that passed. Please advise whether the relationship is still valid?

Q: I constantly have waswasa regarding different things, such as fears of losing important things and intrusive thoughts about divorce. 

Recently, while driving alone, I had thoughts of talaq, and I became worried about accidentally uttering the word and losing my wife. To counter these thoughts, I ended up saying the statement three times "main tumhy talaq deta hon" with my wife's name, thinking it would stop my mind from repeating it in front of her. 

However, I later read that divorce in isolation might still be valid. I also consulted an Imam at the Masjid, who assured me that the talaq is not valid. I would appreciate your opinion on this matter.

Q: Does the mother have to pay child maintenance post divorce in Islam?

Q: Please advise as to talaaq given out of anger, can I withdraw all 3 talaaqs given via text?

Q: My husband gave me talaaq on 2 separate occasions. He said the first time it was out of anger and didn't mean it. Does it count as 2? 

I'm currently in iddah for 1 week. He told me he revoked this talaaq. Does this mean we are back in nikkah even if I don't go back home or accept? 

Q: Husband and I are divorced. When it comes to the baby... who should he liase with regarding her wellbeing, visitation and her needs for the month? Should he contact my parents or should he contact me?

Q: I requested my husband to give me permission for Khula a day before my menses date, although he didn't want to give khula he accepted my request and said ‘I give you permission for Khula’. I tried to return his haq meher but he refused to take it and said he forgives it. Upon insisting he took 5000 out of 5 lac. 

After that I came back to my parents house and I assumed my Iddah started, after few hours the same day I had my menses. 

Please note all this happened only between me and my husband. There was no witness except Allah. 

My question is, is my Khula valid? Are we no longer husband and wife? Because as per my husband he said he didn’t want to give khula from his heart, he only gave his consent on my request and it might not be the right procedure for Khula. Please guide me.

Q: I gave 1st talaaq in 2011, 2nd in 2017 and then 6 months passed without reconciliation. After the matter was intervened by families we went to an aalim in Pakistan and he made a new nikah with a new mahar. 

Today I gave her 3rd Talaaq. I don't want to stay with her anymore but she is insisting to keep the talaaq secret so that she will do a halaala after 90 days. 

She is also refusing to leave my house after iddat. We both are from Pakistan. 

Do I have an obligation to tell her family that I have divorced her. What can I do if she refuses to leave my house after iddat period.

Q: I did not know that after giving one talaq the marriage is still intact. 

So after divorce I said to myself that my nikah is not anymore and once said to my wife that I can't talk to you now... Is this one talaq ?

Q: My husband and I had an argument on WhatsApp. He messaged me and texted that I'm leaving u from today..I'm blocking u all and said I'm breaking over the relationships. At that same moment I left the car as I was traveling and I asked him u divorce me... u using these words. He said are u mad .. did I used divorce... 

He swears to Allah he didn't intended divorce by that... He just threatening me and he just mean I will leave you but didn't leave. His sister saying she ask mufti and mufti said no divorce occur. What could I do, should I believe them?