Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: When my son has his own job and he is earning then is he dependent on his father?

Q: I really love my cousin and he love me too. We did everything together and I regret that but it’s happened now. He told his mother that he wants to get married to me. But his 2nd mother told him that she gave me milk and to him also. My mother never told me that even my father don’t know about this. Now we really love each other and we can’t leave each other. What to do?

Q: I touched my mom with libido. Now I am deeply sorrowful for the sin. Please guide me.

Q: A father said that he will admit their child in a madrasah, but the mother said that she will not admit their child in a madrasah. The mother respects Allah and Islam, she also wants the child to know about Islam and she wants to teach the child about Islam by an Islamic teacher. The father and mother then admitted their child in a school (not an Islamic school and not a madrasah) and appointed an Islamic teacher to teach their child how to pray salaah, read Quran, duas, Islamic characters, lifestyle, etc. so that child learns about islam. Is there any sin?

Q: If a woman is on birth control, is she allowed to stop taking them without the consent of her husband? She would love more kids but he says no. 

Q: I am a boy. My age is 29. I want to having physical relations with a boy with his permission. Is it permissible?

Q: My father's sister suckled me once. Now I want to marry her daughter. I share milk with her elder brother. Her daughter is two years younger then me. Can I marry to her. We are madly in love with each other.

Q: What is considered more haraam, masturbation for men or men having friendship with a woman?

Q: I want to ask about the relation of an illegitimate child with his biological parents. If an illegitimate girl wants to get married, does she need a wali or not?