Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: I am going to see a girl for a proposal/first meeting. Please can you advise what questions I can ask during this meeting.

Q: Can one get married without an Imaam and the partner male tells you, we can make nikaah as long as we know the duas. Is this permissible?

Q: If a girl has been behaving like a boy naturally since birth, she has a strong fear of Allah and a desire to walk according to Islam. She tried to correct herself and did everything that girls do, but it didn't make any difference and she is still attracted to girls. All of this is natural for her. She has now decided to seek medical help and undergo hormone therapy because she is not getting better despite waiting and trying. She has a strong hatred for LGBTQ. She also visited a doctor and the doctor said to them, do a harmons therapy. Please give me answer what should they do?

Q: I fell in love with a woman, but my family forbade me to marry her because she was a slave. After 3 months, we had an abortion and put the child/fetus in the toilet. What is the punishment for doing this in Islam?

Q: Is it the moral or legal responsibility of the husband to pay his wife's medical expenses?

Q: Can a husband restrict his wife on using the phone? What are the valid reasons? What if the wife bought her own phone?

Q:

1.When can a proposal be rejected in Islam?

2.Is it correct to ask for a prospective spouse who has a sunnah beard and sunnah dressing? I don't like a modern lifestyle because it's not what I am accustomed to nor brought up with.

3. How many times can a prospective couple meet under supervision if they need to discuss aspects of nikaah?

4. After the proposal a bride accepts, within how many days does one have to make nikaah... since it is emphasized in Hadith to hasten for nikkah to take place.

Q: I would like to know how it works if the husband travels alone for one night on a journey without either wife? When he returns, who's turn would it be?

Q:

1. Can a pious person chew on a date and then send it to the parents for tahneek to be made or would it be better to take the child to the pious person to make tahneek?

2. Can one get 2 or 3 pious people to make tahneek for the child?

Q: Can a Muslim man make nikah with a second wife who is a Christian woman and then go to the church and watch her being baptised. Is this kind of marriage valid and accepted in Islam?