Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Misyaar nikaah

Q: Is the following type of marriage permissible: A Misyar marriage can be defined as an official marriage contract between a man and a woman, with the condition that the spouses give up one, two or several of their rights by their own free will. These include: living together, equal division of nights between wives in cases of polygamy, the wife’s right to housing (sukna) and financial support (nafaqa).

Giving gifts to one's wife

Q: I have been getting myself closer in following the Sunnahs of our beloved Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) and trying to become a better Muslim and my wife stood by me and supported me she even ties my turban for me. I am 26 years old and the question that I have is as follows, what gifts did Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) gift to his wives to increase or show love? I can get her anything but I would like to know what did our beloved Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) give so I can emulate this behaviour as well?

Delaying nikaah till one becomes financially stable

Q: Should one marry right after settling down financially? If his brother and parents are in financially not well, and wants to support them for the time being can he delay his marriage? and after marriage is the wife his primary responsibility or parents too have the equal right? If a man wants to buy a house should he register it on the name of his wife or mother? Who has more right over this issue?

Avoiding kuffaar styles and fashions

Q: I have in the past attended a marriage lecture for pre weds and they encouraged women to purchase lingerie garments that a worn by kuffaar women, in the bedroom for the husbands desires and they also mentioned one should adorn themselves before the husband in (marital relations). Is this something forbidden in Islam or encouraged? What is the approach to the bedroom life of a Muslim?