Divorced woman getting married without the consent of her wali
Q: Is it possible for a divorced woman aged 40 to do nikaah without the permission of her wali?
Nikaah & Marriage Issues
Marrying one's ex-husband
Q: I was once married for 10 years and my husband and I got divorced. After getting divorced I met someone who promised to marry me and even had a baby, however he did not marry me or support his child. Is it permissable for me to marry my first husband again now?
Secret nikaah
Q: I want to know if it's halal to get marry without anybody knowing, not even my parents.
Oral sex
Q: A wife is not allowed by doctor to have intercourse with the husband during pregnancy because of complications. The husband is also co-operative but certainly has his desires What if the husband makes love with her during 7th month and asks her to suck his private part. The wife doesn't do it as it feels disgusting, will she be under the ruling of not making her husband happy or is it haram to do so ?
Muslims marrying non-Muslim girls
Q: I once read somewhere that boys have an option to marry Christian girls. Is it true?
Taking care of one's stepson
Q: I married my husband and he has a son from his previous marriage. His son's biological mother is still alive, and when he was 8 years old, his father took him from his mother and since then he never saw his mother. With years we had two children on our own and my stepson is living with us.
My husband is away and I do most of the expenses, taking care of the three children. My husband sends me very little because his son is staying with me. I have to say, things are not very good between me and my stepson. And my husband always takes his side. I feel he doesn't give me the dignity as a wife and my marriage is falling apart, because of this I try my best to keep a good relationship with my stepson, but I can't love him as I love my own children and I really feel bad for him. And on good terms with my husband because we have 2 children. But I'm not happy.
My question is, can my stepson see his mom because his father has never allow him to do so? And what are my duties to him and my husband. All the responsibility is on my shoulder. And sometimes I want to divorce. Can I ask my stepson to leave. Please help me be because I want my stepson to be happy as well.
Hurmat-e-musaaharah
Q: I have been reading up on Hurmat Musaaharah and had the following questions:
1. If a boy touches his sister with lust, are their children, etc. allowed to marry each other?
2. If a boy touches his cousin (parents siblings children) with lust, are their children allowed to marry each other?
Taking a second wife
Q: I am 41 years old. I got married 10 years ago. I have a daughter 9 years old and son 4 years. My wife is patient of multiple sclerosis. She has been sluggish since marriage. She cannot manage home and family matters. I am over burden as am job doing person. I want to opt second marriage and will keep first one with me. Please guide me what Islam says on this.
Using IUD for birth control
Q: Can we use IUD (intra uterain device) for birth control. Is it permissible?
Rejecting a marriage proposal due to not being physically attracted to the person
Q: Is it permissible to reject a marriage proposal on the grounds of not being physically attracted to the person? Or does attraction only come after marriage?