Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Taking a second wife

Q: My question is if a person has been forcibly married by bribery and blackmail and then later has accepted the nikaah and has treated his wife with loyalty, can he get married again in a second nikaah? Can he do a second nikaah while still married to the first?

Oral sex

Q: My question is if wife wants to suck husbands private part and she wants to take it in her mouth, is it permissible in Islam. What is the correct way of intercourse?

Kufu

Q: A girl received a proposal, boy's father is a vegetable merchant, but boy is an engineer. Girl's father is also an engineer. Son of vegetable merchant is kufu for daughter of a University professor?

Contraceptives

Q: Me and my husband have two children. One has retinal dystrophy and the second has not been tested yet as he is too young. The doctor has told me its a genetic condition that was passed on from me and my husband through recessive genes. Me and my husband are second cousins. My question is would contraception be allowed for me not to have a third child as I have been told it would have a good chance of a genetic problem/disability. If I did have a third child, would I be to blame in Islam if I knew it could be passed on. What if my child hates me when he is older.

Making a condition that the husband cannot remarry

Q: I just wanted to ask a question. I am having my nikaah done at the mosque in a week. I have researched upon the topic of allowing your husband to remarry. I wanted to have a condition in my nikaah that my husband should not remarry whilst he is married to me. If he was to do so and hide it from me he will be negligent upon his part. My query is where I live we don't have any blank space etc on the nikaah form to write such a condition. Is it enough for me to just mention it to my husband at the time of nikaah or before etc? He is already aware this is what I want as I have told him before. But online I have read on many sites that you should mention these things at the time of the nikaah otherwise it will not be valid? Please tell me how I should go about it.

Anal sex

Q: I want to ask if it is permissible for a husband to have intercourse with wife from back side while wearing condom? Confusion is that some people say that if one wears condom there is no physical contact so doing sex from back is valid.