Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: After marriage if anybody comes to know that his child is not legitimate, is there any way to make it valid or legitimate?

Q: Using sex toys, is this haram? Can you give any reference about it?

Q: Is demanding dowry haraam, makrooh or permissible in Islam? Is giving dowry to a daughter's husband also in the same category?

Q: I'm hoping you can shed some light on this matter, nonetheless I have a daughter out of wedlock. Her father is Christian. I withheld visitation because I know I've committed a major sin. I've repented and I'm still doing it, anyway is it permissible for him to see and be an active role in her life? I don't know if there's anything I can do because he took me to childrens court. So she goes to him every Sunday. He feeds her food out of their house and they are pork eaters even though I send her lunch and snacks with. He even gives her food out of other Christian peoples house. I once saw his cousin's husband kissing her on her mouth. Any advice will be appreciated.

Q: Singing is haraam but my husband sings about me. Says good things about me when he's singing. But when he is singing he sings in a naat tune or nazam tune. He just makes up words. He doesn't copy any singer. Is that okay or still haraam?

Q: My wife is 20 days pregnant. Can we abort it? Actually we want to abort because we are just recently married. I have some plans to enjoy life with her.

Q: These days a new trend is to have wedding functions where all haram takes place and then have small pardha sections for men and women who are pardha conscious. Would it be permissible to attend such a function and use the pardha section?

Q: Can I marry a Hindu low caste girl if she on her own freewill accepts Islam?

Q: 1. Can a wife masturbate her husband? Can she perform oral sex before any fluids are discharged from the penis?

Q: Is sehra (a special face cover for grooms) allowed during marriage in the books of Ahle Hadith and Tablighi Jamaat?