Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: If the child is born on friday at 1:30, what day should the name be given? Is the 7th day the thursday or friday?

Q: Who should bear the wife’s pregnancy expenses? Woman's husband or her parents?

Q: Is it permissible for a girl to marry her step mother's brother? If it isn't permissible then what is the reason?

Q: Why do people fall in love with the same sex? Can you help someone who desires the same sex?

Q: Recently I have come across the following situation and I am very distressed. Please could you advice me further. My mother was waking me up for the morning prayer and she touched my hand, without any veil in between, and I had a feeling in my private part. However, this feeling was possibly due to fear of erection happening. Also, I had a feeling in my heart when she touched me. However, as it was straight from waking up, I couldn't think properly and my mind just let it be. In the end, there was no obvious erection that occurred. Does this constitute hurmat musahara. Also, what is the meaning of shahwat for this masala. I have read on two respected websites different definitions. One says the occurrence of an erection, whilst the other says an arousing feeling in the private part. Please help me, as this is distressing me a lot, along with the possible implications.

Q: When the Imam leads the nikaah, does he have to ask the girl with two witnesses or just two witness is enough. In our locality people say Imam should ask the girl and they get offended if the Imam doesn't go.

Q: Are we Muslims allowed to attend marriages of non-muslims?

Q: Is it permissible to find out the gender of the child before it is born? What if not then can you please provide a brief explanation?

Q: Can I see my wifes body? Is it allowed to have bath at the same time in the bathroom?

Q: If a man's wife becomes ill and sickly and therefore she will be  unable to satisfy his sexual desires, would it be ethical for a man to get another wife or will it be unethical. The man will still dedicate his time to take care of her needs. He will not desert her. In terms of shariah, does it become compulsory for the man to get another wife if he still has a lot sexual desire in him? If he does not get another wife out of kindness and service to his first will, will this be considered as being foolish while he still has sexual desire and cannot satisfy himself with her?