Advices for someone addicted to pornography
Q: What naseehat can be given to one who is addicted to pornography?
Nikaah & Marriage Issues
Seeking repentance for one's past sins before marriage
Q: If a man and woman commit zina before getting married. After their marriage, they had children and realized that what they have done before marriage was a sin. But they do not repent when being married because they dont have knowlegde that before marriage they had to repent.
After 6 years they got to know that they should have repented before nikaah, otherwise their nikaah is invalid. Is their nikaah valid or not as they repented after 6 years of marriage.
Masturbating to avoid falling into sin
Q: I have heard that it is ok for Hanafis to masturbate if there is a serious chance of falling into sin and masturbating can help to relieve some of that sexual tension thus avoiding the sin. Is this true? If it is true, is it fine if I masturbate so that it is easier to avoid watching pornography?
Wife contacting other men if her husband cannot satisfy her
Q: If a husband is sexually weak and can't satisfy his wife, then what should the wife do?
1. Can she contact someone else for her desires?
2. She does't want to lose him, because he is very caring and supporting. What does shariah suggests in this matter ?
Punishment for a person who is involved in illicit activities with a married woman
Q: What is the punishment for a person who has done kissing, hugging and sucking a strange woman who is married and inserting his finger in her vagina? Is this a big sin like intercourse?
Boy and girl considering each other as husband and wife without proposal and acceptance
Q: If a girl and boy considers each other as husband and wife without proposal and acceptance, will their nikaah be valid or not? I saw in one tv program, there was female advocate who said that it was the opinion of Imam Abu Hanifa that if a man points to a woman in a gathering in front of many people and says that she is my wife and she remains silent, it means that their nikaah is valid. So what is the correct opinion? Will the nikaah be valid or not if any one does like this?
Girl completing the recitation of the Quraan in front of an Ustaadh for marriage proposal to be accepted
Q: My mom said that during marriage, the husbands family asks the girl if she had completed reading the Quran in front of an aalim/muallima/ustaadh.
I find no logic behind this, please tell the ruling about this according to the sunnah.
Husband having an affair with a boy
Q: A married woman who is a mother of a 7 year old child is unhappy with her husband having an extra marital affair with a boy. They term it as a good friends relationship having "pure love" for each other without any physical relationship. Is such friendship or relationship permissible in Islam?
Giving up masturbation
Q: I have a problem (of making ghusal farz by hands) for the last 5 years. I have tried my best to leave it. Once, I have been able to leave it for 3 months but after that I was caught by it again. I have asked forgiveness every time from Almighty Allah and alhmdulillah He has blessed me every time, but I couldnt leave the sin.
I am average in ibadaat. Sometimes I perform salaah 5 times a day for a month or few months and sometimes I leave it out for a few days and sometimes I dodge a few prayers.
Kindly tell me a simple and easy solution to leave out this sin.
Sunnah practices to be performed after the birth of a child
Q: What are all the Islamic rituals to be performed after the birth of a baby boy or baby girl?