Urdu Questions

Sachche dil se tawbah karna

Q: Maray aik dost na aik lrki k sath kiss ke ha ab maray dost ko bht dar lgta ha k Allah pak usy maff ni karay ga ab wo keya karay kaffara ha is cheez ka ya ni or wo lrki sa apni ghalati ke mafi mangta ha tow wo bolti ha ma maff ni karu ge plz is ka koi solution batay

Har qasam torne ka kaffarah

Q: Main bohut ziada pareshan hun.. Mene takreeban 2 saal pehle Gunah se tobah ki Zina se tobah aur Allah ki qasam khae thi k ainda aesa nae karunga... Magr mjhe shetan ne bohut behkaya ghalat rastey per lagaya aur mjhse wo qasam toot gae.. Ab masla yeh hai k mjhse wo qasam bohut baar tooti magar mene kaffara ada nae kiya... Ab mjhe bohut sharmindgi hai bohut ziada pareshan hun.. Dil se Allah se tobah ki hai aur ab main kaffara ada karna chahta hun.. Mjhe kaffare ka pata hai k kia kia karna hai lekin mera sawal ye k mjhse aik ki kasam tooti hai br br aur kaffara ada nae kia hwa tou kia main baar baar ada karun kaffara ya aik br ada karun q k mjhse kasam tooti aur main gunah kerta gaya aur kaffara ada nae kia.. kaffara dena ka baad main pata chala ab mjhe bohut ehsaas hai..please meri madad kijiye.. Allah apko iska ajer den.. Main bohut sharminda hun suche dil se.. Main kaffara ada krna chahta hun.. Mjhe nae maloom k kitni baar gunah hwa mjhse Ab kaffara Alag alag ada krna hai ya aik hi baar ada karun..

Pareshaani ke liye ilaaj

Q: Meri shaadi hokar ek saal hua. mai aur mere shohar me bahut ziyadha mohabbat thi.humare Saas Sasur hum dono ki mohabbat se na khush the.kuch na kuch kark Saas Sasur humare shohar k dil me nafrat dalne ki khoshish karte the but .mere shohar ko mere upper bharosa tha maa baap ki baton me nahi aate the.. Abbi mai apne waliden k ghar aake 2 months hua .. Pregnant hone k liye mera ilaj chaleko tha.. Doctor ne pregnant hone k liye 10,000 mg ka injection diya Usk 3 din mai bahut sust hogai meri halat bahut kharab hogai thi chalne b nai hota tha..aise me meri Saas mujhe kaam karne k liye torture kar rahi thi..but mere shohar mujhe rest me raho kark bole..maine Saas se kaha meri ammi k ghar chodo 8 din k liye mai tabiyat achi karleko aatiyu..to Saas aur saasur ne mile kar mujhe per ghalat thomat lage mere shohar k saamne bole mere shohar naraz hokar mujhe dosre din lakar mere walidain k ghar chodiye ..mujhe tabiyat sudhar ne 15 se ziyadha din hoge chalne ki b Kabil ki nai thi.. Aise me mere shohar akar achanak mujhe per gussa hone lage ghar chal nai to mai tumhe talaq dedunga kark.mai boli mujhe thoda time diyo sudhar ne mai sirf bed rest me hu..mai sasural aatiyu karko boli to mere shohar b maanliye ..phir kuch din baad achanak zewarat hona kai wo bank me rakhe to interest aata kark bole ..maine kaha ek baar badhon se b pucho to mere shohar gussa me aakar chalgae Usk kuch din madersa me arzi diye k mai kise ladke k saat hu mere walidain b shaamil gain ..a log bahut character less admiyan gain mai meri biwi se chutkara chahtu kark bole ..mufti ne kaha k ilzam to lagaya isse sabit karo kato abbi tak sabit karsake ni...mere shohar k saat un k walidain b aae the..ab mere shohar sirf ek hi baat bolren k mai isse chutkara chahutn karko ..halank mai sirf mere shohar k siwa kise saat b nai phirti thi.Mere shohar khud janten k mai perde me rahtiyu unk ilwa kisi ko dekhti b nai karko..Mujhe nai samjh me aara achank se mera shohar Jo mujhse. Ittni mohabbat karte the.. Aaj mujhe ilzam kaisa lagren aur mujhe se chutkara chahren ..kya hua mujhe se ittni nafrat samjh me nai aara k mai kya karu mujhe yakeen hi nai hora a mera shohar bolren karko ..

Tezi ke saat baat karna

Q: Agar kisi ka mizaj gussel ho kyuki uske khandan mai baap dada wagerh bhi garam mizaj the lekin akhlak ke ache hai magar kisi se conversation mai haq baat kehne mai alfaz tez niklte ho thoda gusse mai bolte ho to aisa insan kaha tak galat hai ya kaha tak sahi hai or galat hai to is fitrat ko kaise badle ..

Does ruju' take place through the spouses talking?

Q: I want to ask that my husband gave me talaq for one time and we made ruju. But condition were fine between us and I demanded for khula. But my husband gave another talaq. But now he wants to live with me again and I don't want to live with him. And my iddah is not completed. He attempted suicide and I went to talk to him and we are talking for few days. He made request to reconcile again. But has not said that he has taken me back or any thing. I touched him but my intension is still not going back to him or reconcile. Did ruju happen between us? I don't wish to go to him back. I was talking to him just because I can help him to come out from mental stress. Please tell about my situation. Are we in nikaah again or am I still in my iddah?