Urdu Questions

Khala ke saat zina karna

Q: Mera sawal he app se ke me jab 8 saal ka tha to hum gaw gaye the. Tab waha meri khala (ammi ki behan) jo us wqt baaligh thi wo mujse apni khwahish puri karwati ti jiska kisi ko ilm na tha or na muje is cheez ki agahi ti qu ke me bachha ta. Uske baad hum gaw se sheher agaye lekn jab me taqriban 18 saal ka tha to me gaow gaya tha to usi khala (ammi ki behan ) ke saat zina kar betha hum dono raza mand te us waqt zina ke lye. Magar ab mujhe bohot afsos hei muje khud se ginh ati he qk maine bohot bura kya hei me bohot barha gunah gar hu muje aesa nae karna chahye tha is bare me kya hukam hei? Or is gunah ka kaffara kya hoga toba kaise qubool hogi meri?

Sureen me jima' karna

Q:

1. Mera sawal ye he ke biwi se hambistri ke doran agar ko apna rasta badalne ki koshish karta hei maslan wo piche se karne ki koshish karta hei magar wo piche se karta nahi hei bas koshish karta hei or do baar aesa karte huwe a'zuu tora sa andar bi daakhil hochuka hei to iske bare me kya farmayenge aap? Ab us shakhs ko ihsas hei ke muje aesa nae karna chahye tha ye ghalat hei to ab toba qabool hogi?

2. Agar shohar apna a'zuu aurat ke moo (mouth) me deta hei to iska kya hukam he or iska gunah kitna he? Owr agar aesa hua ho to toba qubool he?

Ghusse me teen talaaq dena

Q: Main apni biwi ke Sath car Main tha hamari karei hoi or Main Bohat guse Main us ku 3bar talaq de die Kiun ki wo lari Main Bar Bar car ke stering ku Edhar udher Karne lag gai Main na Kabhi us ku Yah us na Mujh Chorne ka socha Bhi nahin Hai hamari then bache Hain. Lakin Allah gawah Hai na tu mare dil na ya baat kehna the or na hi demag na ki Main us ku Yah lafz boloon Kiun ki Main Yah Chahta he nahin hoon ki wo Mujh se Yah Main us alahda ho jaoon Main or wo eik dosre se Bohat ziada piyar Kartain Hain Haan hamari lari hoti Hai Lakin Sirf chand minut ki us ki baat ham Bhol jatain. Main na Bohat Logon se pocha kisi na kaha nahin Sirf eik talaq Hai kisi na kaha ki teen ho Hain ab khatam Allah janta hai ki Mujh ku us waqt Kuch kaber nahin thi ki Main Kia Kar raha hoon Main Quran Bhi tarjama Parha Hai kahin Yah nahin Likha ki teen talaq eik waqt Main hoti Hai. Please mari rehnomai karain Eik baat tu Hai ki Main apni Weif ku nahin choron ga or na wo mujhe bahly Mujh ku Biwi ka Relation bana bina do insano ki Tarha rehna pare ham Wase he rain ge or Allah ki nafermani. Insha Allah nahin hogi is Main Mujh ku koi shak nahin. Please mari rehnomai karain.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Meri bachpan se baat tey thi wo tooti to us ke bad 4,5 saal guzar gay ab tak me jab bhi use khwab me dekhti hun me ghuse me hoti hun. Aik baar mene dekha ke hum sab un ke ghar hain or unka ghar bohat hi ziyada bara he owr wo achank girta he.

Qasam khaana ke bahar se khana nahi le ker aunga

Q: Mere husband ek din baahir se dinner le ker aae, jis pe main naraaz hogae and maine kaha ke kia zarurat thi fuzool kharchi kerne ki, jis pe mere husband naraz ho gae and ghussey me kaha ke " Allah ki qasam ab me kabhi bhi bahir se khana nahi le ker aunga". Thori der baad un ka ghussa khatam ho gaya. Kia ye qasam ho gae hai? agar ho gae hai to kia iss ke tootne per iss ka kaffara dena parega? Agar dena parega tou kia hum kisi ghareeb and zarurat mand ko paisey de sakte hain? Agar de sakte hain to kitne dene honge?

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Meri wife ne ek khwab dekha jiski mujhe tabir malum karni thi. Meri wife ne dekha ki bahot sare janaze rakhe hue hai aur bahot sare log oon janazo ko kabr me is tarah dal rahe hai jaise koi kude me kachra dalta ho waha har ek kabar me kai murdo ko ek sath dala gaya hai aur meri wife waha par jor jor se ro rahi hai aur unlogo se kah rahi hai aisa mat karo un marhumo ko is tarah mat feko aur waha par meri bahen meri wife ko khinch khinch kar kah rahi hai rehana tum yaha se chalo utne me meri wife dekhti hai ek janaze ko dalte waqt ek marhum ka kafan nikal jata hai aur wo ek aurat hai jo puri tarah be parda ho jati hai aur fhir dekhti hai ki us beparda aurt ke kabr me mera beta hassan aur behan ki bacchi faika us aurat ke sath khel rahe hai aur meri wife zor zor se rokar kah rahi hai koi mere bacchon ko nikalo aur meri bahan meri wife ko kah rahi hai rehana tum yaha se chalo un log ko chodo lekin meri wife waha se nahi ja rahi hai utne me dekhti hai ki us kabr ka muh dhire dhire khul raha hai aur meri chila rahi hai koi mere bachon ko nikalo utne me khuch admi mere bachon ko kabr se nakalte hai utne meri wife ki aankh khul gai aur usne ye khwaab fajar ke waqt dekha aur wo us waqt mere bete ko dudh pila rahi thi. Mufti sahab mere likhne me kuch galti hui ho to mujhe maaf karte hue mujhe is khwab tabir bataen aur dua me yaad rakhiye.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Maine khwaab me deki ayk old woman muje bulake meri forhead pe kiss ki. Wo bohot bari umar ki thi. Unhone muje ader diti aur mene unse puchi ap meri kya lgta ho dadi kya? Unone boli nhi dadi nhi me teri may lgti hu. Phir mene unko phejanta nhi.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mene khwaab men dekha ke darkht pe toori latak rahi hen aur men wahan se tor kr apne pas rkhti jarhi hu. Phir usi darkht ko mera bhai hilata jarha hai aur jaamun girte jate hain jo men uthati jati hu, phir falsa girte hi aur wo bhi men uthati pas rkhti jati hu. Is ki tabeer kia hai? Jo darakht mene khwb men dkha haqiqt men wo darkht jamun ka hai jo hamare gaon ke ghar me hai.

Showhar na mahram larkiun se chat karna

Q: Mera sawaal ye he ke mery husband namehrum larkiun se chat krty hain. Darasal mein ne past me kch galatian ki the jinki me ny Allah sy tauba our maafi mangi. Our apny shohar ko sab kch sach sach btaya shadi sy phly. Me enhy ksi kisam ka dhoka nhi dena chahti the. Puri emaandari ke sath en sy shadi krna chahti the. Us wqt enho ne mjy maaf kar dia our mujh sy shadi ki. Aaj 12 saal bad enho ny mjy mera past yad dilana shru kar dia our mujh sy badla leny ke lye larkiun sy dostian krty hn. Me ne bht wazaef kiye duaein mangi ke ye asa na krn our rahe raast py a jyen mgr hamary jhgrey shru ho gye hn. Kuch samjh nh ata kya krn? Kbhi mayoos ho jati hun kbhi purumeed. Jis larki sy dosti ha wo bhi shadishuda our 2 larkiun ki maa ha. Usy me ny mna bhi kia mgr wo baaz nh ae. Kindly meri preshani door kare. Mjy koi wazeefa btaein ya phr mjy btaein yh mery maazi me kiye gye gunahu ki sza ha? Kya meri tauba qabool nhi hui? Me kya krun? Me apny shohar sy behud pyar krti hun mgr samjh nh ata unhy kasy yad dilaun ke unho ny mujh sy pyar kr k shadi ki the. Har wqt me jalti khurti our preshan rehti hun.

Government se commission lena

Q: Me government servent hon Grade-17ma. Mere 2 sawal han:

1. Hamare department me commission fix ha 3% for SDO/Assistant Director and 5% for Xen/Deputy Director. Ye government ki taraf se nahi ha balka Khud department walo ne rakhi huwe ha. Jo ka shaid angreez/british ka daur se chali arahi ha. Is commssion ka bagher PoL, rent aur dosre kharche sirf salary ma nahi pure hote. Kia ye lena jaaiz he?

2. Agar commission jaiz nahi tu kia sirf is niyat se la sakte han ka ham apni zaruriyat puri kar sake aur sath hi sath kisi aur ghareeb ki madad kar sake?