Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: If an Aalimah who wears full niqab and does not intermingle with men or watch tv movies etc. gets a proposal from a doctor whos a hafiz, which means he probably does khalwat with women and he watches football, would you even tell the Aalimah to consider him? He is praised for his akhlaaq. He also visits a female dentist.

Should the Aalimah even consider him. She has hope of doing amr bil maroof but fears marriage problems thereafter. Her grandfather (Allah enlighten his qabr) was a Shaikhul Hadeeth.

Q: Can a man or woman who don’t want to get married stay unmarried for the whole life?

Q: We are married for 5 years now but we still dont have any children. We want to adopt a newly born baby, please help us.

Q: If someone is addicted to pornograpy and masturbation, how can he get rid of the addiction? What are the consquences? 

Q: What to read when pregnant:

1-3 month (Surah Luqman)

As the brains are formed - for a wise and clever child

3-6 month (Surah Yusuf)

As the face is formed - for a beautiful child

6-9 months (Surah Muhammad)

As the body is formed - Good manners and qualities of Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)

Surah Maryam throughout the pregnancy for easy pregnancy and easy labour

Surah Al-Haaqqah - no defects and healthy child and baby will be saved from all calamities. 

Q: I want to ask about the quality of knowing a religion oriented person prior to selecting a spouse on religion features.

Q: My wife is now in her menopause... We haven't been having sex and she refuses to have it also. What happens to her in the eyes of Allah?

Q: If there is a boy who engages in Salaami and Mawlid, but everything else about him is favourable like akhlaaq and deeni consciousness, is not marrying him because of the 'soofie' side of him a legitimate reason to not marry?

Q: A Muslim brother is asking whether it is permissible to make nikaah to a non-Muslim (Hindu/Tamil). He is very keen on doing it the right way although the girl at the moment is not ready to read shahada. She is pregnant with his child and is willing to allow the child, when born, to be a practicing Muslim. What is the ruling for this brother?

Q: My brother is married to my uncle's daughter. It's been 9 years already and now they asked for my hand in marriage to my sister in laws brother, is this jaiz?