Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: If a person is married and they engage in oral sex and the fluid goes in either of the spouses mouth and they swallow it does this have the same ruling like eating something haram?

Q: If someone touched his mother with lust when he was 10-12 years old and he is not sure about his feelings what will he do now? How could he ask forgiveness from Allah Ta'ala? What is the procedure for his Tauba? Does he have to confess. He is really upset and all time he is thinking about it and is very disturbed and in deep depression. Please guide.

Q: I am a 26 years old divorcee. From the last 1 year I have been indulging in masturbation. I repent too but unable to quit this habit. Please do give some suggestions.

Q:

1. If someone had unlawful relations more than one time with his married paternal aunts (father's sisters) and married maternal aunt (mother's sister), not the actual zina, but perhaps hurmat is established. What is the status of his aunts' marriages?

2. Also how to repent for these actions?

Q: Is my wife's step grandmother considered as my mahram?

Q: Can a wife take her husband's money without his permission?

Q: If I have married someone without my father's permission, is it valid? There were people who were present during the marriage but I don't know them. Hanafi mazhab allows it but in Tirmidhi, its against this type of marriage. Why is it? What should I do now if I got married like this without knowing. Should I get married with him again with my father's permission?

Q: I have recently found out that my husband masturbates when he thinks I'm asleep. I know it is not allowed in Islam. What should I do? Should I ask him directly or just pray for him or ask my parents for help?

Q: If a person wants to convert from Shia to Sunni just to marry a girl, what should he do and what should he not do?

Q: If someone regularly takes baby for massage with the belief that this will help to strengthen and mold the limbs properly also the molding of the baby's head. Is this okay?