Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: I have 4 children, 3 daughters and 1 son. They all are small kids, elder daughter is 8 years, son is 6 years, another is 4 years the last daughter is 11 months only. Now I became pregnant again around 40 days. My children are all weak health wise. Their bones are weak. My son got 5 times fractures, daughter got 2 times fractures. Doctors said they have genetic problem. May I do abortion for this reason. Will it be a great sin? Please help me out, I don't want to anger Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala.

Q: Is it permitted in Islam to have intercourse with wife fully uncovered?And is it correct to see each other's private parts?

Q: I am living abroad and I want to save myself from zina. Can I marry for a month?  My partner is also ready.

Q: Is it permissible in Islam to see the private parts of the wife during intercourse. And is it allowed to have intercourse in open light?

Q: Is it compulsory on the wife to seek her husband's permission before leaving the home if she wishes to go to her father's home? 

Q: How to spend the first night of wedding as per sunnat. Is there any book which I should refer to? Waiting for your favorable response.

Q: I have two questions.

1. What are the signs of buloogh (puberty) in a boy?

2. I know a 14 year old boy who masturbated and a thick white fluid came out, would he be counted as baaligh?

Q: I would like to know we as Muslims are allowed four wives. Could I marry a jinn woman? What is your opinion on this? My reason for asking such a question is I am frequented by female jinn at night. Now I can't stop thinking of them.

Q: Suppose if a couple have a baby who has just reached 2 years of age and as a result baby's mother stops breastfeeding him. But there is milk left in the breast and the husband wants to drink this milk intentionally during foreplay. Can the husband do this because this milk has no use now as their child no more drinks breast milk. Please give me the answer as soon as possible.

Q: I have one question regarding Mahr. The family of the bride wants to put 3 million BDT in the nikah contract which is totally unpractical and unreasonable. They are saying I don't have to pay any penny but they won't allow anything less in the contract. They might be asking this as a security in case a divorce takes place! How funny. Anyway, I would like to know the ruling on this. The bride has agreed to a much lesser amount which I can afford to pay. So if I sign the paper just to satisfy their parents and then I pay to the bride according to her wish will I be debt free? Will my marriage be valid?