Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: Is it permissible for females to attend a nikaah at a mosque that has female facilities?

Q: When will it be waajib for a person to get married? Similarly, when will it be Sunnah for a person to get married?

Q: My question is that can a husband and wife watch sexual content together if it's the only way they can have sex because one of them got low desire while other one got very strong desire. If he can't get it from his partner he might commit zina. Remember he lives in the country where he can get it in return of money. The big problem is he can't divorce the partner and get married to another because of family problems and his partner is not ready to go to doctors so he is kind of stuck. The only way is sexual content is solving his problem and if he can't do it, can he watch it and masturbate to prevent himself committing gunnah.

Q: Please can you advise what the ruling will be if a Muslim female is to marry a Hindu male. The wedding will be conducted under the Hindu rites. Is it permissible for the her mahram to partake in the ceremony?

Q: I was told that to shave the hair of a newborn baby boy is in the sunnah but not for a newborn baby girl. Is this true?

Q: I was introduced to a boy with the intention of marriage. He is from a different city. We are compatible in all aspects as we've discussed what it is we are looking for in a spouse. I went for umrah and made a lot of Dua for guidance. I met this boy with my brother who is my mahram. My parents knew about this and agreed it was ok. However we decided to make istikhaara. He hasn't spoken to my parents or his. My istikhaara came out positive and he says he didn't have a good feeling. I am certain we went about it the incorrect way. Should he have come to my parents with his parents and then him and I perform istikhaara? Or was this method valid. He is a good boy with all the things a Muslimah should look for. I've kept my chastity etc for marriage. He feels also that I would be a perfect companion as we both only want to work towards attaining Jannah. But after his istikhaara how can we go against Allah (Ta'ala). It is confusing for me as I've abundantly made Dua not to meet him even once if he is not for me. I know my Allah would never have sent him to my hometown if we are not meant for each other. All that is in our way now is his istikhaara answer. Should he first approach my parents along with his?

Q: After marriage if anybody comes to know that his child is not legitimate, is there any way to make it valid or legitimate?

Q: Using sex toys, is this haram? Can you give any reference about it?

Q: Is demanding dowry haraam, makrooh or permissible in Islam? Is giving dowry to a daughter's husband also in the same category?

Q: I'm hoping you can shed some light on this matter, nonetheless I have a daughter out of wedlock. Her father is Christian. I withheld visitation because I know I've committed a major sin. I've repented and I'm still doing it, anyway is it permissible for him to see and be an active role in her life? I don't know if there's anything I can do because he took me to childrens court. So she goes to him every Sunday. He feeds her food out of their house and they are pork eaters even though I send her lunch and snacks with. He even gives her food out of other Christian peoples house. I once saw his cousin's husband kissing her on her mouth. Any advice will be appreciated.