Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Homosexuality

Q: I am gay man and don't know how to handle this situation with my religion. I am not sexually attracted to women and wanted to know if there is a way for me to be with a man? Or do I have to keep fighting against my sexuality? I hope you can help me.

Masturbation

Q: The act of masturbation is defined as rubbing ones private parts to reach climax and this is not allowed in Islam. Now my question is, is it wrong if a person without touching his privates reaches climax, for example, bouncing on ones bed facing towards the roof with the intention of climaxing yet not touching the genitals. Would this be termed as 'masturbation' and is it wrong Islamically?

Marital intimacy

Q: Is pleasuring the private part via tongue, hand classed as zinna/fornication? Is it punishable by hadd? How can one hope for forgiveness for such a disgusting sin as apparently repentance for major sin is not always accepted.