Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Being intimate with one's wife in the state of haidh

Q: The following are few questions regarding a woman in the state of haidh or janaabat:

  1. Can her husband fulfil his desires using her thighs? If not, can it be fulfilled by putting a thin garment in between?
  2. Can the husband touch the area between the navel and knee with his bear hands? Also, can their thighs meet without any barrier between together with having the private parts covered?

Nikah in presence of witnesses

Q: My cousin and her fiance' did ijaab and qabul (proposal and acceptance) without a khutba in the presence of two females and one male (the first female is my cousin i.e my brothers wife and the second female is her cousin and the boy is also her cousin). Is this nikah valid?

Doubts before marriage

Q: I want to get married but many doubts arise in my mind, so I need your clarification in regards to this matter. Firstly, I always think that what if I ejaculate prematurely. Secondly, does the amount ejaculated matter as I believe I am fertile but want to know if a person should ejaculate a certain amount in order to fullfil the wifes rights. Also, does the strength of the orgasm itself matter and how long should the orgasm itself last. Besides this I know I am not impotent but I just feel that I should be able to satisfy the wifes needs as this is what is required. Because I fear Allah by going into a marriage and I am unable to fullfil the wifes rights. Other then this I try my best to have good akhlaq and live a life of taqwa.