Children's Tarbiyah
Q: Can you please name me some books for children's tarbiyah?
Nikaah & Marriage Issues
Remaining covered when being intimate with one's spouse
Q: I am married for 13 years but I am not sure how to perform the wifes needs in bed according to Islam. I have been doing it fully naked inside the blanket or covered by a sheet and looking at each other. Is this allowed?
Being intimate with one's wife
Q: I wanted to ask you two questions about the intercourse between husband and wife.
- Can husband and wife have intercourse in light?
- Can husband and wife have intercourse in such a position that husband is under his wife. I was told me that in intercourse wife should always be under male and this is the only shar'ee method or intercourse.
Husband forcing the wife to have relations in her menses
Q: My friend is married and her husband is troubling her to have sexual intercourse in her periods. Please advise.
Maintaining good relations with two mother in laws
Q: I am 32 years old and I am married with 2 kids. My father in law and mother in law are divorced. After the divorce my father in law remarried. His new wife was always kind and caring towards myself and my kids. Now that my father in laws wife and me get along, my own mother in law has an issue about it and she hates that my father in law's wife is a good person. She doesn't want myself and my kids to be good with her. I want to know if its wrong to be good with her or if its right to listen to my mother in law?
Charging a fee for performing a nikaah
Q: Is it permissible to take money after doing someone's nikah? They say: Hazrat, it's for you.
Questions on intimate relations between husband and wife
Q:
- If a women gets aroused while sitting with her husband and the vaginal area gets wet,but no intercourse takes place; does ghusl become fardh on the lady?
- If the husband fondles his wife's clitoris and she does not orgasm but the area does become wet, is ghusl fardh?
- Can the husband and wife masturbate each other?
- Is oral sex allowed in Islam, if none of the najaasat is swallowed?
- Is it permissable for a couple to use vibrators and other sex toys?
Contract stipulating that the husband cannot take a second wife
Q: Is it permissible for a women to have a contract before marriage stipulating that the husband cannot take another wife for five years. If it is permissible and the husband agrees and violates the agreement by taking another wife, does the wife have grounds for a khula?
Paying the remaining dowry after divorce
Q: I was married but found out the woman had a boyfriend during and before my nikah. Do I still have to pay the remaining dowry even though I have divorced her?
Invalid condition in nikaah
Q: Is it permissible for a woman to stipulate before marriage that the husband cannot take another wife for a certain amount of years? If the husband does take another wife, does it nullify the nikkah?