Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: Please can you tell me all the things that need to be done and duahs etc to be read on giving birth?

Q: I want my husband to follow Islamic way of living and I want to stay apart from my mother in-law and father in-law. They don't follow sunnah. They all are modern and away from Allah. I don't want my child to follow the wrong path. Please suggest to me any wazaif so my husband agrees and keeps us in a different house.

Q: If a wife leaves for another country for more than 10 days for work with out her husband even though work is not relevant to support the home or personal expenses. It's just for outing and career development. After the husband forbade her from going, if the wife did not listen and left home without any mahram, what does such a wife deserve from the husband or what is the punishment according to Shari'ah for such a wife?

Q: I want to marry a man who is paralysed. He got spinal cord injury. My family is against my decision. Am I doing some thing wrong? Is it a wrong decision? Please tell me. I am so tensed.

Q: My daughter is 12 years old and she does not listen to me. She has very bad behaviour. Something been done to her. Please could you help me?

Q:

1. Unknowingly about menstrual, wife & husband spend time together. What does she have to do?
2. Is it ok for her to make ghusul or she must make ghusul?
3. In her menstrual cycle time or days she  has to walk through the Musjid a little through the mens section & she has to walk in the middle of the ladies main section to get to the school where she teaches. What can she do about this?

Q: 

1. Did the Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) or any khalif choose any wife from beyond the territorial distance of a musafir?
2. If so, is it the practice of our Prophet (sallallahu alayhe wasallam) or any khalif , to accompany his wife on holidays to visit his inlaws?
3. Also did any khalif live beyond the Musafir range away from his parents?

Your answers and references are highly appreciated

Q: Is it permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-muslim man?

Q: What Tasbee should a pregnant women recite for blessings from Allah?

Q: I have read in kitaabs that a woman in haiz must wear clothes that prevent transfer of body heat during relations with husband. Please can mufti saheb explain this and give examples of clothing that would be fine to wear. E.g are tights fine?