Using a vibrator during foreplay
Q: Is it permissible to use a vibrator during foreplay?
Nikaah & Marriage Issues
Deriving haraam pleasure from one's own body
Q: I have received your email successfully, now there is another question from a brother, he wanted to ask that once 2-3 years before he put his own finger in his anus hole, he only did 2 or 3 times, does it means he has done a homosexual act or an act of masturbation? He is totally straight and he does not know why he did it. Please help.
Fantasizing and Masturbating
Q: I wanted to ask you that, once 3-4 years before, I met a kid at my uncle's place and there I felt horny after seeing him, and I touched on him on his tummy and at the back (not on his posterior) in a horny niyat, I never did anything with my penis, but I went to the washroom and masturbated by imagining him. Alhamdulillah I am straight but I don't know why that happened? Have I have commited a major homosexuality zina with hadd punishment of death or not? Because I never penetrated or had sex with him, and now I have realised it, because at that time I never knew this is also a part of a haraam activity. Can I ask Allah for forgiveness? Please help me.
Husband and wife having relations whilst a baby is in the same room asleep
Q: Can husband and wife have relations if baby is in same room asleep e.g. in a cot or on a seperate bed?
Husband and wife having relations whilst a child is sleeping on the same bed
Q: Can husband and wife have relations if child e.g. six years old is sleeping on same bed?
Attributing adopted children to their adopted parents
Q: My big brother passed away. I adopted his son. Can I use my name as his father as the child does not know about my big brother he only know that I am his father?
Hurmat-e-Musahara
Q: I wanted to know that if a person is aroused by thinking of something else or seeing someone else but his mother in law is sitting next to him but he is not aroused by her in anyway nor is his attention on her but because they are sitting next to each other both body is in contact. Does this count? Also say you touched a woman with lust before marriage. Can you marry her daughter?
Muslim girl marrying a Christian boy
Q: A born Muslim girl is married to a Christian boy with her fathers consent. Her father (our close relative) told us that his happiness lies in his childrens happiness.
- Can we break our relatioship with that relative and his family.
- Even now also he does qurbani in his daughter name who is now a christian. Is that ok?
Father marrying his son’s mother-in-law
Q: Can a person’s father marry his son’s mother-in-law and does it have any effect on the son’s nikah?
Taking a second wife without the first wife’s approval
Q: Is it permissible for a man to take a second wife without his first wife’s approval?