Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: Is it okay for a husband and wife to see each others body naked and see their private parts?

Q: I know a woman who has a problem. Sometimes when she is half awake, she gets some strong sexual feelings in her vagina and desire for sex. This feelings last for 20 to 25 seconds or less than 1 minute. Her husband stays in another country. She feels nobody in her bed at this time. What is the reason for this? Sometime she sees some black mark on her leg and some times not. What is the reason?

Q: I love a girl and I talked to her parents. Next year we will be married insha Allah! Problem is that I have celiac disease, and in celiac disease people develop many other complications and I am getting some. I am just 27 or 28 yrs old. Is it a sin if I marry that girl or should I remain unmarried? I'll leave pain and suffering in someones life. I am really sad. I think I have lost all the haqq to be with someone. 

Q: If a woman is getting divorced but her identity documents shows her first husbands surname with her name then if she wants to marry another man, is it permissible? Especially since her name will be with her first husbands surname on the new nikaah form.

Q: If some family (husband and wife) adopt a girl 9 to 10 years of age from any centre, then when that girl reaches the age of maturity, if the man (who adopted that girl) wants to marry that girl, is it permissible in Islam to marry that girl? 

Q: Does humeraat e musaahara happen with just a quick touch? I was taking my baby from my father in law and could have touched his hand or it was my babies skin im not sure, and then the thought came that I am touching lustfully. I'm not sure if it was lustfull or not. This happens a lot. What can I do about it?

Q: I am very confused about the position of Arabs over other races in Islam. The prophet himself said that an Arab is not better than a non-Arab, yet I also have heard that Arabs, as a whole, have been given a superiority over other races. How do we reconcile these two views? Could you explain exactly in what way Arabs are considered superior?

Does this superiority also exist with regards to religion - for example if two people are equally religious and one is Arab and one is non-Arab, is the one that is Arab more excellent in religion or more pious or more beloved to Allah?

Lastly, are Arab women not considered compatible with a non-Arab men in most scholars' opinions, yet all non-Arabs are considered compatible with each other. So, from what I understand this compatibility issue is not about cultural differences, because then non-Arabs would not be compatible with other non-Arabs of different races/cultures. So, what is the reason for the incompatibility between an Arab woman and non-Arab man? What is the evidence for this?

Q: My question is regarding intercaste marriage. Me and the girl I like convinced our parents for intercaste marriage and everything was going well. Everyone agreed but a day before our Nikkah her father refused to do so because of her uncle. They convinced his father that its wrong and put trouble for all of us. Now everyone is willing to do this marriage but her father does not agree. Our Nikkah was not done and we faced challenges. We just want to ask if there is anything that we can do to convince her father to agree to this marriage?

Q: My husband has two wives. I have read that a man with two wives is supposed to give them both equal amount of time. What does this equality mean because I think in todays lifestyle one man cant give time equally and its impossible.

An example is that last night my husband came home late, around 1am. So he gave me time from that time till around 10 am the next morning. Now with the other wife, he went to bed early around 9.30 pm and from my knowledge, he was awake till 12 am and Allah knows best how long.

I dont know but my question is the other night I got less time and the other wife got more time. What's the Islamic ruling on this. Is it permissible?

Q: Can a person adopt orphans from poor countries to give them a new life? Is it good for one to adopt orphans or should one not adopt them?