Urdu Questions

Q: Meri shaadi hokar ek saal hua. mai aur mere shohar me bahut ziyadha mohabbat thi.humare Saas Sasur hum dono ki mohabbat se na khush the.kuch na kuch kark Saas Sasur humare shohar k dil me nafrat dalne ki khoshish karte the but .mere shohar ko mere upper bharosa tha maa baap ki baton me nahi aate the.. Abbi mai apne waliden k ghar aake 2 months hua .. Pregnant hone k liye mera ilaj chaleko tha.. Doctor ne pregnant hone k liye 10,000 mg ka injection diya Usk 3 din mai bahut sust hogai meri halat bahut kharab hogai thi chalne b nai hota tha..aise me meri Saas mujhe kaam karne k liye torture kar rahi thi..but mere shohar mujhe rest me raho kark bole..maine Saas se kaha meri ammi k ghar chodo 8 din k liye mai tabiyat achi karleko aatiyu..to Saas aur saasur ne mile kar mujhe per ghalat thomat lage mere shohar k saamne bole mere shohar naraz hokar mujhe dosre din lakar mere walidain k ghar chodiye ..mujhe tabiyat sudhar ne 15 se ziyadha din hoge chalne ki b Kabil ki nai thi.. Aise me mere shohar akar achanak mujhe per gussa hone lage ghar chal nai to mai tumhe talaq dedunga kark.mai boli mujhe thoda time diyo sudhar ne mai sirf bed rest me hu..mai sasural aatiyu karko boli to mere shohar b maanliye ..phir kuch din baad achanak zewarat hona kai wo bank me rakhe to interest aata kark bole ..maine kaha ek baar badhon se b pucho to mere shohar gussa me aakar chalgae Usk kuch din madersa me arzi diye k mai kise ladke k saat hu mere walidain b shaamil gain ..a log bahut character less admiyan gain mai meri biwi se chutkara chahtu kark bole ..mufti ne kaha k ilzam to lagaya isse sabit karo kato abbi tak sabit karsake ni...mere shohar k saat un k walidain b aae the..ab mere shohar sirf ek hi baat bolren k mai isse chutkara chahutn karko ..halank mai sirf mere shohar k siwa kise saat b nai phirti thi.Mere shohar khud janten k mai perde me rahtiyu unk ilwa kisi ko dekhti b nai karko..Mujhe nai samjh me aara achank se mera shohar Jo mujhse. Ittni mohabbat karte the.. Aaj mujhe ilzam kaisa lagren aur mujhe se chutkara chahren ..kya hua mujhe se ittni nafrat samjh me nai aara k mai kya karu mujhe yakeen hi nai hora a mera shohar bolren karko ..

Q: Tilawat ke sajdha wali ayaat ko agar chhor dya jaye to sahi hy ya nhi? 

Q: Mene aurato ka kapra chora ha ab usko wapis nahi kar sakta. Chowri ki toba ka pura tarika batye.

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1. Hum agar khud istikhaara kare to kya namaaz ke bad kisi se bhi baat nahi kar skte?

2. Aur mujhe ye bhi poochna he ke aap istiakhaara nikaalte he? 

Q: Agar kisi ka mizaj gussel ho kyuki uske khandan mai baap dada wagerh bhi garam mizaj the lekin akhlak ke ache hai magar kisi se conversation mai haq baat kehne mai alfaz tez niklte ho thoda gusse mai bolte ho to aisa insan kaha tak galat hai ya kaha tak sahi hai or galat hai to is fitrat ko kaise badle ..

Q: Agar shadi se pehle sex kerliya ho to iski touba kese karain?

Q: I want to ask that my husband gave me talaq for one time and we made ruju. But condition were fine between us and I demanded for khula. But my husband gave another talaq. But now he wants to live with me again and I don't want to live with him. And my iddah is not completed. He attempted suicide and I went to talk to him and we are talking for few days. He made request to reconcile again. But has not said that he has taken me back or any thing. I touched him but my intension is still not going back to him or reconcile. Did ruju happen between us? I don't wish to go to him back. I was talking to him just because I can help him to come out from mental stress. Please tell about my situation. Are we in nikaah again or am I still in my iddah?

Q: Ustaad ka islam mai bht bada darja hai to ustaad kise kehte hai jisse roz sikha jae ya jo ek hadis suna de wo ustad hai ya jisse ek masla puch lia jae wo ustad hai for example maine apse ye sawal kia hai to kya ap mere ustaad hai. Dusri baat ustad sirf deen e islaam ka ilm dene wale ko kehte hai ya koi bhi ilm sikhane wale ko.

Q: Mujhe ek masla malum karna hai ek ladki hai jo apne waalid ki izzat karti hai magar uska waalid uski taraf sakht dil hai or wo ladki job karti hai ghar mai bhi paise deti hai magar uska waalid befikr hai wo kaam nahi karta or waalid 5waqt ka namazi dusro ki madad karne wala tahajjudguzar or haj bhi kia hua h sadqa zakat time pe dene wala islamic rules pe muqammal chalne wala hai magar uski beti ki taraf uska rawaiya thik nhi or uski beti job karti hai phr ghar mai bacho ko tuition deti hai paise ghar mai deti hai jisse uski maa uski shadi ka saman or ghar mai bhi kharch karti hai .. bachpan mai 15 saal ki umar tak bachi ko baap marta bhi tha ab nahi marta magr jb ladki gharpe aati h sham ko mehnat karke thak jati hai to uska waalid usse ghar ke kaam bina taras khae karata hai or kehta hai namaz padho to is rawayye se ladki 23 ki hone ke baad ab keh rahi hai ki allah uske sath galat kar rha hai or aisi aisi baten bol rahi hai to mujhe ye malum karna hai ki ladki ka pareshan hoke aise alfaz nikalna kaisa hai or ye ladki aisi condition mai h ki isko lgta h duniya mai isse zyda koi pareshan nahi ise kisiki sunni bhi nahi hai to ise kaise samjhae iska kya ilaaj ho skta hai or baap se koi baat nahi kar skta kyuki wo kisiki nahi sunta. Please detail mai batae.

Q: Mera sawal ye ha k mene aik jagah par parha k conditional divorce k lye lazmi ha k shohar divorce ka words istemal kre... K men divorce de dunga ya divorce hojaegi agr ye hua... Agr ye na kaha jaye blke koi indirect bat kahi jaye k phr talluk khtm... Ya men talluk tod dunga... Awwal tu mjhe alfaz yaad nhn ha mufti sahab bus itna confirm ha k divorce ka word shohar ne use nhn kya... Mne kaha k agr ap ne aisa kya tu its over... tu uspr kaha k same here AGAR tum ne falana bat boli dobara tu..... Or baki words yaad nhn iske elawa... Mene js bat k lye mana kya tha vo alag bat ha mufti sahab or same here unhu ne dosri bat k lye kaha jo mjhe smjh me aya.... Or dosri baat aik hi flow me boli the.... Break nhn dya tha par akhir me kya bola ye nhn yaad bilkul b k khtam krdenge talluk ya warning the mjhe kuch b yaad nhn mufti sahab.... mere shohar tu siray se inkar kar rhe hen k unhu ne aisa kuch kaha ya chodne ki bat ki... Unhu ne bus ye kaha k ye baat mat bolna bus... Mjhe srf itna lgta ha k unhu ne mjhe darane k lye ye kaha jo b kaha tha.. Kya men ignore krdun is bat ko bilkul se?? Or agr koi aisa kaam hojaye jis se mana kya ho jiska pata hi na ho k ye us zamray me hoga tu usse kuch hota tu nhn... Galti ya bhool chook se aisi bat ho... Mufti shb men bht pareshan hun k aya keh pehli bat k lye same here kaha ya bd wali baat k lye jo baad me kahi unhu ne... Or donu hi kaam alag alag baten hen... Shohar tu kehte hen mjhe nhn yaad k mne kya alfaz kahe... Akhir k jumlay mjhe b nhn yaad... Meri Madad farmayen