Urdu Questions

Baaligh hote hee shaadi kar lena

Q: Islam me baligh hote hi shadi karne ko kaha hai? Lekin ye sab log jaante hai ke male (boy) ki height baligh hone ke baad hi barti hai, lekin agar wo baligh hote hi shadi karde aur phir ek saal me usse bachhe ho jaaye.

Ye toh sab jaante hai ke choote bachhe bahut satate hai, toh agar wo admi baligh hote hi shadi karle aur phir usse bachhe ho jaye toh uski neend sahi nahi hogi, jiski wajah se us ki height par bhi asar parta hai, jaise ke sab jaante hai ke height sote waqt hi barti hai. Jab hormones ziyada se zyada release hote hai aur neend bahut zaroori hoti hai height growth ke liye. Toh jab admi baligh hote hi shadi karle toh us ki toh height hi ruk gayi. Hame is mas'ale par baar baar ishkaal hota hai.

Teen talaaq eik majlis me

Q: Mere husband ne mujhe Dubai me ek hi waqt me 3 talaq di hain or phir unho ne wahan se fatwa nikala jis me aya ke ek majlis me 3 talaq 1 hoti hain. Me Pakistan ke scholars ko follow karti hun tu mujhe bataye ke kiya 3 talaq waqi hogai hain?

Kiya me un ke paas wapas jakar reh sakti hun ya nahi? 

Deobandi larke ka rishta

Q:

1) Deobandi ke aise konse aqeedah hai jis ki waja se woh kafir kahlaaty? 

2) Kiya sunni aur Deobandi ki shaadi hosakti? Aisi surat me kiya woh kufraana aqaa'id follow nahi karti ho?

3) Mere liye Deobandi ka rishta aaya he. Woh kahty hai hum hanafi fiqh ko follow karte hai. Mujh ko teen aqaa'id jo patah tha, Deobandi ke bare me, kufraana hai. Me ne us larke ko bataya jo shaadi karna chahta he to woh kahta hum ye follow nahi karte, to kiya mai aur mere ghar wale is rishta ke liye haa bol dai?

Zakaat qardh nahi he

Q: 8 saal pehle, mere sasural ke door ke rishtedaar bhaabhi ne mere bhai ke cancer ke ilaaj ke liye 30,000 rupees zakaat ke paise diya. Ab itne saal baad, un ke shohar mujse waapas woh zakaat mang rahe hai. Mere sasural ke sab rishtedaar ko phone kar ke mare qarza leke wapas nahi de rahi hoo, larke muje badnaam kar rahe hai. Me ab kya karoo?