Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: According to our Islamic beliefs, when is a foetus inside a mothers womb given life i.e. it's rooh?

Q: I had a question about marrying a second wife? I told my wife I wanted to marry another wife and she said I would need to divorce her first? She would not accept that second marriage! What is the ruling on this?

Q:

1. If a brother in law drinks from a utensil, can his sister in law drink after him or does his wife have to drink first or vice versa?

2. Can a brother in law sit on the same bedding that his sister in law uses to sleep?

Q: What does Islam say about couples going for honeymoons after nikaah?

Q: What is the ruling of distributing dates at the time of a wedding and what is the evidence for this?

Q: Inshallah my nikaah will be done soon. My future wife said that it is sunnah for the girl to stay at her parents house on the first night after nikaah without her husband. Is this true?

Q: I want to know that how many times can a man have sexual intercourse with his wife in one night? If he does it more than one time, does he need to make ghusal for the same amount of times (he did intercourse)?

Q: Can a man remove hair in the private parts of his wife and vice versa?

Q: I have three daughters by three caesareans. In last caesarean there were some complications in last few days. And now I got pregnant again for the fourth time surprisingly. My husband doesn't want to continue this pregnancy because of my health problems. I have so many health problems as I got knee joint problem so I can't read my Salaah standing. So we are asking that is it permissible to abort this baby, its just starting pregnancy. Please answer me soon.

Q: My problem is that one of my friends has done a court marriage and he did not tell their parents. After that they tried to convince their parents for their marriage and then the parents agreed and once again they have done nikaah. So my question is that is it ok for them or is there any obligation for making nikaah twice as bride and groom is same.