Permission of the wali for nikaah (Shafi'ee)
Q: A couple made zina (shaf'ee) and now they want to get married. Do they need permission from the awliyaa?
Nikaah & Marriage Issues
Marrying Hindus and Non-Muslims
Q: If a person marries a non Muslim who doesn't convert to Islam even after marriage and also marries his Muslim sister to a hindu. Is that person and his family outside the fold of Islam?
Questions regarding zina
Q: I have few questions regarding adultery/zina.
1. How we define adultery/zina in Islam?
A.Generally speaking zina is generally defined by Islamic Law as unlawful sexual intercourse, i.e. intercourse between individuals who are not married to one another. Further, we define intercourse as sexual contact between individuals involving penetration, especially the insertion of a man's erect penis into a woman's vagina, typically culminating in orgasm and the ejaculation of semen.
Please correct me if any thing written above is wrong.
2. If a man insert his penis into women vagina but not completely and also did not ejaculate semen in her vagina but outer part of vagina. What should we call this? Is it adultery/zina or not?
3. If a man does sex with the woman or women with their agreement. Sex include kissing, breast sucking, anal sex, and oral sex. Either it will
fall in the category of adultery/zina? Although it is understood these are all sins. but I need the most precise answer regarding adultery/zina.
4. Can a man marry with woman with whom he had adultery/zina?
5. Either there is any relation between a man earning and adultery/zina? as some people say that if one do adultery/zina. Allah decreases his earning?
6. Some people say that adultery is something which one borrows and one of his family members has to return it. Is there anything really written in Islam?
Thank you for your time. I hope you will answer my question at your best according to references from Quran and Sahi Hadith and earliest possible.
Waleemah
Q: I got married i.e 08-08-2011 and I did not make waleemah and we have 1 child. Please guide us according to Qur'an and Hadith.
Living in Zina
Q: My sister is living unmarried with her non muslim boyfriend. Yesterday, she gave birth to his son. They named their Son Job. Now people start to congratulate me because of this. Saying Mubarak and so on. I don't like to be congratulated by this occurring. Actually, I don't want to have anything to do with this. How should I react according to our Islamic adab? Furthermore, Should my parents do the aqiqa for this grandchild? Because my sister is not intending to do so. And is it legitimate for them, to give him an Islamic name?
Getting married as soon as a suitable match is found
Q: I am a 26 year old man. I am working, Alhamdulillah, in a reputed company for the past two years. My marriage was fixed to a girl a year ago. And I have collected the amount of Mahar, to be gifted to girl. And I also have enough money to buy the household goods. I didn’t want to take money from my father for those things, so I have collected the amount myself. The girl was selected after a great effort by me to convince my father to get me married, (he wanted my sister to marry first, who is 9 years younger than me, but later agreed to allow me to get married). After the girl was selected my father told that the marriage would take place only after present house is extended to a bigger size and constructed. I work in a different city far away from my home town. I told him that it’s not required to construct the house right now as I do not stay in the city and there is one empty room for me to stay whenever I come home. He told me that he was planning for the future so as to accommodate all my five siblings after their respective marriages. I kept quiet and later the house construction got delayed and started six months later. Now the house is almost complete, so I am telling him to fix the date for the wedding. He is still not agreeing. He is telling to wait for more six more months or a year. What should I do now? He is very casual on the issue of my marriage. What I am think is that, there can be no more money (may be due to construction of the house) to spend for day of walimah, which includes spending on food, booking function hall, etc. The girl’s father is a pious man. He would be ready to do a marriage as per Sharia, with least spending, but my father might not be ready, as I am the eldest son. How do I explain to my father as he is ready to listen to me on the issue of my marriage (but at the same time he keen in listening to me about my career and my job)? Please help.
Oral sex and haraam fantasizing
Q: Kindly shed some light on the following:
- Oral sex , with and without a condom? And a man giving his wife oral?
- When my wife and I have sexual relations, after foreplay I insert my private part into her vagina and tell her a sexual story while she fondles her private part till she climaxes. Many a times the story revolves around us having sex on the beach while others watch and sometimes we include others in the relationship story. Is this acceptable?
Punishment for committing adultery
Q: I have a question that a friend of mine has committed adultery and he is unmarried. He asks for forgiveness. As there are no Islamic rules being implemented in our country. What punishment is required as an atonement for his sin?
Marrying one's father's daughter
Q: My mum got married to my dad when she was very young. I was a result of that marriage that didn't last. After few years my she married a man that became my dad in every way. I got married and had kids my wife is a cancer patient and gave me permission to mary again. On the night of my walimah I found out that my dad got married again after my mum and had 2 kids a boy and a girl. He got divorced again and married another woman from whom he had a daughter who happens to be my second wife. We already consummated our marriage. I am so confused.
Marrying a shia
Q: Is the Nikaah between a Sunni girl and a Shia boy halaal or not? The mother of boy is Sunni and the father is Shia. The same with their grand parents. They lived happily without interfering with each others maslak. They ask to do the Sunni nikaah and every thing according to our maslak. Please guide me with proper reference. The family of boy is not staunch. They don't do matam but they do disrespect the Sahaba ikram.