Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: Please advise wether it is permissible if a man or woman masturbates himself/herself whilst they are both having foreplay?

Q: Is it permissible for a man to insert his finger in his wifes vagina while she is in the state of haidh?

Q: I am soon to be married, insha-Allah. I want to know how to perform the wedding in accordance to the sunnah.

1. What is the sunnah mahr and the amount in South African Rands?

2. What is the Shar'ee status of having a wedding and calling people?

3. When is the sunnat time for having the walimah? Does khalwah (in referance to the walimah) refer to seclusion only or does one have to have intercourse?

Q: Is it permissible for a husband to have an  orgasm on his wife whilst she is in the state of haidh. Whilst she is clothed from navel to knee?

Also is it permissible for a husband to fondle his wifes naked breasts while she is in state of haidh?

Q: I am aware that oral sex is Makrooh.  I have recently come across an article(western health website) stating that impurites from private organs could be dangerous and one should avoid these coming into the mouth. The article suggested using a sheath (alternatively dental dam) to cover the private area of a women before doing such acts. If one does take the above precautions, will the act be permissable?

Q: Is it permissible for a woman in the state of haidh to reach an orgasm without any intercourse? The way in which she reaches climax includes her and her husband being fully clothed.

Q: Is it permissible for the wife to masturbate her husband? (Using her hand on him)

Q: Once my wife’s periods finished, we had sexual intercourse before she could take ghusal (bath), really we fear azaab (punishment) of Allah Subhanu Wata’aala on this matter. May Allah forgive me for this and guide me to spend my life according to the Sharia.

Q: I have read that conjugal relationship should be done to the bare minimal to the extent that it should be only once in a lifetime. Also mentioned that looking at the private parts or in a standing position etc. could result in a blind or dumb child etc. mentioned together with a few more repercussions. Is all of this authentic?

Q:  A woman experiences her menses for an indefinite amount every cycle, after e.g. 7 days her bleeding stops. She performs Salaah etc. However at times the bleeding restarts before 10 days... Is conjugal relationship allowed while she is performing Salaah?