Aqaaid

Q: Which people are included in the Ahlus Sunnah wal Jamaat? Are deobandis, barelvis and ahle hadeeth included in the Ahlus Sunnah wal Jamaat?

Q: What is aqeedatut tahaweeya? Do all the people of ahl sunnah wal jamaat and followers of Aimma Arba believe in aqeedatut tahaweeya?

Q: We used to go to dargah many years ago (me and my parents) and do all the things which are against the teachings of Islam and we used to bow down at the grave there and then at that time our aqidah was like the person in the grave will act as a intercessor between us and Allah (which is not true) as said to me by mother. As far as I know, this is kufr and takes one out of the fold of the Islam and I am not married but my parents were married so their nikah too gets invalidated and nikah has to be renewed and we used to go many times to the dargah so if we do this kufr three times within one menstural cycle does three divorces take place? I would like to know the status of my parents nikah and I can't dare to tell all these things to my parents and they don't know all these things because if I tell them either they won't believe or they will get mad at me. Even the same situation is with my grand parents all I want to do is to renew both of their nikaahs but I don't know how to proceed please advice me.

Q: Is Tafseer Al-tustari reliable which was written by sufi saint Abu muhammad Sahl bin Abdullah Altustari?

Q: Somebody told me that we're not allowed to look at the sunrise/sunset, because apparently it has something to do about about shaitaan or so. This person said it was heard in a bayaan.

Q: Did the event of mi'raaj really take place on the 27th of Rajab? What special ibaadah should be carried out on this night and what is the importance of fasting on this day?

Q: Do husbands have a choice to be with their wives in jannah or do they have to be with the hoors?

Q: Did Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) see Allah Ta'ala on the night of Mi'raj with his physical eyes?

Q: Is it okay to shred a paper with Allah's names on it and discard it with normal waste? Is burning of such paper allowed?

Q: Is there any action which can take a person out of the fold of Islam or it is only wrong beliefs that take a person out of the fold of Islam?