Aqaaid

Q: I have an atheist friend who asked me few questions that I was unable to answer. So I wanted to find an answer to provide guidance for her to the righteous path.

The first question was, people who tend to have religions tend to be so possessive about their religions and that if anyone doesn't follow their religion they wont be granted jannah. How can there be so many jannahs?

Second question is why is the christians, hindus or the athiests who dont even believe in God have so much that they need, but the Muslim who prays to Allah and does right deeds have so much less and suffer more compared to the others?

How should I show her the right path? I really want to help but I'm not able to explain her doubts about Islam.

Q: I'm a practicing Muslim woman in USA and I notice that in the Quran even if the men are rewarded with Hoor Al Ayn there is no stated reward for women in the Quran. Like sometimes I need motivation for Jannah and saying "whatever you desire" is too vague for me. Maybe if Allah stated that women would be rewarded with a palace with singing angels or a Pegasus or a personal spa it would have motivated us even more. So I could pray five times a day and at the end of the day I could say Allah would reward you with blah blah blah and I could say Allah is very generous with me or I could be very happy knowing I won't be disappointed in the afterlife. I know Jannah isn't like Dunya, but how Allah reassured the men that even if they died unmarried or withheld themselves in this world Allah will substitute with something better, sometimes I need the same reassurance. Also I think a lot of Muslim women need reassurance also. What do women get?

Q: Is Allah Ta'ala attributed with Eyes?

Q: I've been taught to follow the Quran and Sunnah. Many hadiths I've read say to follow Quran and Ahlul Bayt. Are those weak hadith or are there hadiths that say follow the Sunnah as well?

Q: I read this somewhere:

By Sunnah is meant that the tradition of Hazrat Ebrahim (alaihis salaam)'s religion which Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) instituted among his followers as religion after reviving and reforming it and after making certain additions to it. Is it correct?

Q: If a Muslim says that they just want to die and go to hell. Does that constitute kufar? Does their nikah break?

Q: Is it kufr to joke about shab e barat?

Q: When I was waking up from sleep, I was dreaming something. I don't remember the dream but I remember thinking 'Allah ke qadam choom lo'. I don't remember whether I said it out loud or not. Is Allah attributed with feet? Is this a statement of kufr or not?

Q: Is it considered a major sin to read fiction books. I occasionally read to unwind and relax.

Q: My friend has question that how garwisharif is jaiz. Is there any evidence relating to Quran and hadis?