Aqaaid

Q: Whenever I tell my husband to read his Salaah, he jokes around and tells me no he is not reading because he is a Christian naauzubillah. By him uttering such words, does it break my nikkah?

Q: If we have a lot problems, one finishes and another starts, can we ask any Aalim or any roohaani Aalim to give us the solution according to the Qur'an and Sunnah? Is it permissible because some one said that it is shirk to tell someone your problems. Please guide me.

Q: Is it permissible to attend functions of non-Muslims such as weddings etc, where it is known that sinful acts will be taking place?

Q: I have been told to not apply itr when leaving the home at night (after Maghrib). The scent apparently attracts Jinns which is said to be bad. Please advise on the authenticity of this belief.

س: هل تصح نسبة الكتاب فتوح الشام المتداول بين الناس والتي هي مطبوعة الى الامام الواقدي؟ كثير من المحققين ينكرون هذا. فما رأي علماءنا؟ رأيت هذا التتحقيق على انترنيت. الرجاء منكم ان توضحوا هذه المسءلة المهمة. جزاكم الله خيرا لخدمتكم. 

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Q: If a person knows he does not have wudhu and pretends he is in ruku but is not reading salah does this constitute kufr?

Q: I am Alhamdulillah married and my wife's father is a qaadiyani. However, I am not too sure what type of qaadiyaani he is. I know he does not believe in the fool Mirza being a prophet but I think he does believe in him being the Mehdi, even this I am not to sure about. If not then he just gives some standing to him. My mother in law is a sunni muslim, how they came about getting married is because they are 1st cousins so I don't think much attention was given, the family is not well linked with Ulamas etc. At first I was not too sure how deep my wife's father was in qaadiyaanism. Initially my thinking was because his siblings were all qadiyanis he had some weakness towards it and just said he is a qaadiyani because from what I know he practices Islam the sunni way and talks very highly of prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam). But my mother in law came over (they live in Canada, I am in the UK) and I finally got the courage to ask her a few questions about my wife's father and from there I have become skeptical and now I am not too sure how deep his belief is. He does on occasions like Eid pray behind their Imaam but again it is because all his family are there. I was introduced to my wife so I don't know the family too well, however neither did my wife know her father had these type of beliefs as her mother always brought her up in sunni Islam.

Here are my questions:

1. Is he a Kaafir?
2. If my mother in law believes him to be a Muslim does she stay in the fold of Islaam?
3. My In laws are very kind to me so what sort of relationship should I keep with them?
4. Its difficult for me to ignore him out but I am beginning to feel some serious hatred if his belief is kufr, should I still go visit them in Canada?
5. How should my wife's relationship be with her parents?

Q: If someone tells me you won't get jannah or I will not take you into jannah or a Hafiz tells me I wont take you into jannah or you won't go into jannah. Or anything else like this. Will they affect me or can I ever be deserving of it being told me and then will it affect me?

Q: In jannah will we desire and have human friends and go out with them and enjoy it similar to that of this world?

Q: I go for driving lessons. In the car of the driving school, there is a picture of something from another religion and a sign on the key ring. Is it permissible for me to go to the driving school and use their keys?