Miscellaneous

Respecting one's mother

Q: How does one deal with ones mother who has chosen to marry for the 4th time?

Being married, my husband and myself are constantly fighting because he is disgraced that my mother has taken another husband (the man is a sheikh). My husband worries that because my mother has not received blessing from her children or her mother, therefore she is doomed to fail in her marriage. Is it correct to feel anger towards ones mother and is it correct of my husband to show any disrespect to her if he does not agree with her choice? I feel as if I have to choose between my husband and my mother?

Using a stove in hotels that do not permit the usage of appliances in hotel rooms

Q: It is a general rule in most present day hotels that visitors booked in are not allowed to use a stove or any such appliance in the bag which may be a cause of a fire. Despite the above condition, a person still uses the appliance without it being detected by the hotel, will this be incorrect and be regarded as khiyaanat (deception)?

Egg donation (IVF)

Q: My husband has two wifes. I have two sons while the other wife has no children. My husband is forcing me to give one of my eggs so that he can produce a test tube baby and put this in the uterus of the other wife. I am not happy with this. Is this allowed in Islam?