Urdu Questions

Marital problems

Q: Mera shohar sirf hokam deta hy or meri koi bat nai manta na muje mere ma bap ke ghar jane deta hy shadi ko srf 1 sal howa ma ke ghar 1 he dafa gae hon .. shohar ka ghr karachi me or ma ka peashawar me hy ... shohar khud dubai me hy or sasural me me akeli hon ma bap ke ghar bht jane ka dil karta hy par nai chorta kahta hy Allah ne muje ye haq deya hy chaheye me choron ya nai .. mera shohar baki to bht acha hy par meri her bat us ke smne ghlt or onki her bat sai hy chaheye wo ghlt b ho ... me jab ma bap ke ghar jane ki bat karty hn to mere ma bap ko bad dua deta hy ke Allah inko mot de de meri jan in se chot jae.. muje damki deta hy ke onki zindagi barbd krdonga mere bhai ko br br fon krta hy ke tmhari ma idr fon nai kare or muje fon krne nai deta me chup chup k fon krdety hn ... meri ma or bap akele hy ghar me koi nai hy bhai ki shadi nai howe wo swat me kam karta hy .. or ma bht bemr hy .. me apne shohr se kahty hn muje jane de ap waise b idr nai hy me idr room me bet bet ke tang hon idr b bahr nai chorta din rat mbl pe bt krty hy hum .. baki bht acha hy likan maa ke ghar nai chorta .. din rat wazife karty hn pir b on pe k6 asar nai hota .. maa ka nam lon to bs jagra karke mbl behan se kah ke le leta hy ... meri 3 nand hy 3no ki shadi howe hy pir b idr rahty hy .. on ke shohar ne in ko ma ke ghar betaya hy ke kharacha on ka na ho on ke shohar b dubai me hy.. ye log din rat gomty rahty hy ... mera b dil karta hy ke me b maa ke 7 rahon... roz ghar me larhai jagre hoty hy .. sas ko 3no betiyan pata nai kia kia kahke mere opar sare shoro hojaty hy ... me idr tang hon bhtttt zaida .. mene apne shohar se kaha me in ki tara maa k ghar salo sal nai raongy srf 1 mahene ke liye jane de ... par jane nai deta shadi ke bad sirf 1 dafa maa ke ghar gae hon 1 sal shadi ko hogaya hy ... pahle b larai jagro se maa k ghar 3 mahene bad gae ty abi to full zid pe ara hy .. ap koi wazifa bata de ke shohar bat mane muje maa ke ghar jane de .. idr me jab qurran majid parhty hn to b kahty hy qurran parhty hy amal nai karty or khud idr is ghar me sirf sas nemz parhty hy baki nande dewar sasur koi nemz nai parhta .. jab room ka darwaza kolty hn to kahty hy begam samne bety hy jab band karty hn to kahty hy medam darwaza band karke bety hy me in sub se bht tang hon ... shohar in mamlo me pahle sath deta ta abi parwa nai karta .. apki shukar gozar hongy ...

Khwaab

Q:

1. Kuch din pahle mene khwab me dekha ki mere Room me ek kata hua hanth rakha hua h Jisko me utha kar dekhta hu fir Mera bhai ek or kata hua hanth le kar mere room me ata h or mujhe de jata h ki ye me bazar se khareed kar laya tha Me us hanth ko bhi le kar room me rakh deta hu fir mujhe dar lagta h to me apne room me nahi sota or niche hall me ja kar sone ka irada karta hu or hall me chala jata hu. Meharbani kar ke is khwab ki tabeer batayen.

2. Mene khwab me dekha ki me or mera dost bike par ja rahe the ki achanak Samne se ek bada Khinzeer aa jata h or Humari bike us se takra kar gir jati h mera dost puri tarah se khinjeer par gir jata h or me door girta hu or khade ho kar dekhta hu to mere dost ke hanth me ek rassi hi jisse ki khinjeer ka muh or pair bandhe hue h lekin wo rassi chhod nahi sakta ek admi khinjeer ke dusri taraf gira hota h or kahta h use mat chhodna nahi to wo nuksan pahucha dega or meri neend khul jati h.

Gussay me talaaq dena

Q: Meri shadi ko 10 saal ho gaey hain after 6 month of marriage meri husband sy kisi baat py larae hoe or onho ny gussey mein talaaq ka lafz use kia 1 baar per ye confirm nae k wording kia the.

1. Talaaq dy daita hn

2. Talaaq daita hn

Os time mein pregnant the. Kch dair baad jab sab normal ho gya to husband ny kaha meiny aisa kch nae kaha or na he meri aisi intention ho sakti hy.os k baad humny as a couple apni life ko continue kia. 2nd time after 3 years mein again pregnant the doctor ny mujhy junk food sy mana kia tha or mein wohe kha rahe the os bàat py husband ny phr without intention divorce ka word use kia. Husband ki condition ye hy k wo gussey mein bht extreme level py chaley jaatey hain baad mein onko khud b yaad nae rehta k onho ny kia bola tha.

My 2nd Question is ager aurat ya mard napaaki ki halat mein divorce dy to kia tallaaq ho jaey gi?

Showhar owr biwi ke darmiyaan laraai

Q: Mere shohar ne mjhe apne kuch rishtedaro k talluk se door rakha or hmesha kaha k inse tmhara talluk nhn.. Par jb mne ladae me ye bat unse kahi k mera ap k un rishtedarun se talluk nhn tu unhu ne agay se kaha k tumhara unse talluk nhn tu phr mjhse b nhn talluk... Uske bd mene pocha k kya mtlb tu agay se gussa kya or chup hojane ko kaha... Mere papa mjhe uske foran bd lene aye tu shohar ne rok dya k men shohar hun ye meri ijazat k bagair kahi nhn jasakti.... Phr men kahin nhn gyi... Mufti shb kya humara talluk kaem ha ya is se khuda na khuasta talak tu nhn hoti... Meri madad farmaye...

Pareshaani ka hal

Q: Pahla ye ke mene MBA and BTech kar liya hai. Fir bhi meri naukri nhi lagti. Aur agar koi mil jaati hai to usme mera dil nahi lagta hai mere dimaag me ulte seedhe khayalat aate hain ki is naukri me main fas gaya hoon isme mera future nhi hai ghabrahat hoti hai aur woh job nikal jaati hai haath se. Mera dil bohot ghabrata hai. Pata nhi kyun sote sote uth jata hoon ghabrahat hote hi. Me sharukh khan ya salman khan ko dekhta hoon woh itne famous hain ya aur kisi ko dekhta hoon famous insan ko jinke peeche duniya pagal hai. Woh aate hain chale jaate hain kisi bhi shaher me kuch ghante rukte hain pata nhi mera dil kya chata hain aur me ghbarane lagta hoon. Please kuch batayie .... Me kya karoo

Nikaah ke ba'd talaaq se mahr waajib hoga?

Q: Arz ye he k mere sister ki shadi ko 2 years k arsa hone wala he or us k or us k shohar k darmyan izdiwaji talluqat qaim nahe howe hen jis ki waja shohar ki medical fitness he or tamam ghar walo ka zulm or ziadti he. Meharbani farma kr jald az jald written me fatwa arsaal karden. Mere 3 sawal he

1. Shohar talaq k waqt haq mehar dene ka pabnd he?

2. Doran iddat shohar naan nafqa de ga?

3. Shohar kehta he k me na haq me her do ga na naan nafqa. Is k baare me kia hukum he?