Urdu Questions

Biwi par zulm karna

Q: Muje ye swl krna hy mere shohar mjh pr bht zulm krte h kharcha v ni dete na bache ka saudi me rhte hy my sasural me rhti hu maike se bache ka jo v qhrcha hota h laleti hu wo zina v krte hy kisi ko v ni mlm sb mje btate hy jo v krte hy aur mjh pr bewajh gusa krte hy aur shadi pr hi bht dechuke dahej ab bhi ghr wagaira paison ka demand krre dene k bawajud kuch na kuch puchte hi rhte ni diye to mjpr gusa krte bht mental tourcher krte btein v bht buri krte hy kisi ko v ni bol skti mje kuch smjh ni ara bardasht krk rhna chahri hu unk sth usk bawajood wo aisa hi krre kbhi kbhi bht dar lgra unse agey kaise rhngi unk sth talaq lene ko sochri hu phr talaq lu to agey ki zindagi ka kya mje kuch smjh ni ara mje kya krna hoga pls btaye

Kya Khuda Ta`ala ka kalaam qadeem he?

س: عقیدے کی بارے سوال اللّٰہ تعالی کا قران کلام اللّٰہ قدیم ہے۔ لیکن جو اللّٰہ تعالی کا باقی کلام ہے مثلا احادیث قدسیہ میں اور مندرجہ ذیل احادیث میں: ینزل ربنا عز و جل کل لیلة الی سماءالدنیا حین یبقی ثلث اللیل الاخر فیقول من یدعونی فاستجیب له من یسئلنی فاعطیه من یستغفرنی فاغفر له تو کیا یہ بھی قدیم ہے؟ اس کو کیسے سمجھا جائے؟ جزاکم اللّٰہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء

Talaaq ke baare me shubuhaat

Q: Mera nikah ho chuka hai lekin abhi rukhsati nhi hui hai jb se talaq ka fatwa pade aur YouTube pr kuch video dekhe hai tb se mere mind me yhi baat baar aa rha hai ki agar hum bhi kbhi neeyat kiye meri wife ko talaq to talaq pad jaati hai yaa kbhi bhi talaq ki neeyat bhi krenge ki apni wife ko talaq denge to talaq pad jaati hai yhi baat mere mind me baar baar aati hai jb akele rehte hai tb khud se baate krte rehte hai yhi sab sochte rehte hai is liye hum apni wife se bhi bhut kam baat kr rhe hai to sir ye sab baat mere mind me baar baar aa rha hai to Kya  humara talaq ho gya hua to kaun sa aur kitna kyu ki hum kbhi apni wife ko talaq de kabhi soche bhi nhi naa hi neeyat kiye bas jb se fatwa sune aur kuch video dekhe tb se mere mind me ye baat baar baar aa rha hai ki agar kbhi neeyat bhi krenge ki apni wife ko talaq to humari bhi talaq ho jaayegi yaa talaq ki neeyat krenge apni wife ko talaq denge  to talaq ho jaati hai.

Qadha namaaz

Q: Mene aaj suna advocate Faeez Sayyed jo bhot mashoor mufti he ke:

1) Jo namaaz choot jaati he ghaflat, waqt nahi mila, sow gaye ya safar me the uski qaza hoti he bas?

2) Kisi ne ye kaha ke aaw namaaz parho to kehdiya aap chalo me parhloonga to kya wo namaaz faut hojati he aur uski qaza nahi hoti kyn ke wo faut hogai aap ne jaan booj ke chordi?

3) Namaaz chootgayi aur chordi ka farq jo mufti saheb ne bataaya he ye shariat aur hadith ke sath jawaab batade kya ye saheeh he?

4) Choot gayi aur chordi namaz ka masla har firqa maanta he ya ahle hadees ya hanfi sunni maslak me iktilaaf he? Me hanfi sunni maslak se hu.

Biwi ger mehram ke sath chala jaana

Q: Ayk saqs ki biwi ger mehram ke sath chali gyi, safar me se shohar ka sath chhudha ke, beshaq biwi ne humbistari or badkari ki us germehram se, jab biwi bhag ke gyi to shohar se keh ke gyi ki me hamila hun or yah bachcha is mere ashiq ka he, ladhki ke walden us biwi or uske ashiq ko pakdh ke le aaye, hamila khatoon ka hamal girwa diya, yah baat shohar ko or uske khandan ko pata chal gyi, shohar ki nani or mamujaan ke samne ladhki ne gunah kabool kiye... bad ab masla ye aa rha he ki ladhki ka baap ladhki ko uske shohar ke gar hukumat ke jor se bhejna chah rah he, yani indian low kanoon ke hishab se, hukmrano ki fazihat ka aalam india me ye he ki jo biwi kahe wah sab sahi, bad sab kuch janne ke, char gawah hone ke bawajood , ladhki ki baap ladhki ko uske shohar ke gar bhej rha he... ladhki ne pehle gunah kabool kr liya, ab saf jhuth bol rhi he, ab agr liyaan ki surat bhi ekhtiyaar karta he to uske jahil walden baap chalne nhi dega... is surat me kya hoga... ladhka agr na chahte huye bhi us ladhki ko rakhe, to kya yah nikah jayaj he, or agr mazbooran rakhne ke bad agr ladhka sare hukook ada kre siwaye jismani to yah kesa... ladhki ki jani hone ki baat pure muaashre me, yani 70-80 gavo me fhel gayi, ladhke or ladhki dono ke sehar me, izzat to jati rhi. yani ladhka jo shohar he uski duniyawi zindgi to jati rhi ab aakhirat ka kya hoga??? agar shohar gusse me ladhki or uske aashiq ka katal kr de to kesa... baraye mehrbani islah kare....

Wudhu aur ghusal

Q: Agar aap ne sahi se kulli ki ho magar aap ko ghusal ke bad pata chala ke daant me kuch reh gaya he to kiya ghusal ho jayega? Agar wuzu ghusal me hatho me paani le kar baazoo pe bahaaya jaye aur poore baazu par saath hi hath pher kar pani mal liya jay aiysa teen baar karne se wuzu ho jaye ga ya isi tarah moon pe bhi? Agar namaz me sans ki awaz (haa) or dard se (see) ki awaz nikle to namaz ho jaye gi? Agar haidh khatam hone ka ayk din bad ghusal ke waqt haidh ka asar saaf karne pe zara sa khoon zahir ho to us khaali din ki namaaz qaza karni ho gi?

Sunnat ke khilaaf masah karna

Q: Jab me wudhu karti hu to masah bhi is tarah karti hu ke koi baal bhi na rahe sar ke jab peechay se waapas agay pesahaani tak hath nahi laati kyunke istarah saare baal kharab hojate he is liye hatelion se kaan ke peeche sar ka hisa hota peshaani tak waha par masah karti hun. Aur kaano ka bhi agay peeche har ayk hissa ka sahi se masah karti hu aur gardan ki pusht ke kaano ke neeche tak or jahaan gardan khatam ho ti he poori ka ayk ayk baal ka masah karti hu na karu aysa to itminaan nahi ho isliye muje boht der lag jati he wudhu karne me 10 se 15 minute. Kiya bilkul isi tarha wudhu karna chahiye ke masah me bhi ayk baal khushk ne rahe. Agar koi asaan tareeqa he ke wudhu bhi kaamil ho to baraaye meherbaani bata dijiye. Muje bohat mushkil hoti he.

Jaadu problem

Q: Hum kuch sal se problem mein hai , aj kal to ghar walay b seda mu hum se baat nahe kar te ,ghar se baak ja ne ka maan kar ta hai rishte b nahe ar te arte to b kuch na kuch waja se toot ja tay hai yard das bahut kamzor hogeya hai umar 30 hu , koi kam thek se nahr kar pata yeh problem 6 se k kareeb se hai to kuch month pehlay hum ne istekha rah kiya k hum per jadu wagera hai ya nahe un dinno mein hum do kul surah har waqt parte rahte the istekharah mein Allah pak ke taraf se kuch iishara malum huwa k hum per kala jadu kiya geya hai aur kar ne walay ghar mein reh ne wali rishte dar hai aur Abba per b kiya geya hai aur hum do no k kun mein hai Allah fazal se hum asar bahut kam hogeya aur Abba per bahut hai per ek baat samaj mein nahe arya tha (Rabiul Awal k 12tareq ya ne Rasool (s) k birthday ka kuch iishara tha k har waqt tasbi per ne walay aur humein har waqt tas b perh na decide kar na ) hum ne socha 12 tariq k baat sab thek ho jayin gay per kuch alag he huwa ghar k halat us din k baat aur bighar giya hai ab hum kya kare jadu karne walay shaq saath he reh te hai aur ghar walay ki si k pas iilarj k liye jana pasan nahe kar te kah te hai jo kare ga wo bare ga humlog us k sam na Allah ko rakha hai ap kuch haal bata ye.

Nafs ku control karna

Q: Mujhay koi aisi dua batai ka jis se me puri tarha apne nafs pe control kar sako me bohat koshish krta ho lakin 1 week se pehle hi control nhi kr pata or me namaaz or Qur'an bhi parhta ho to pher ku ye sab kuch?