Urdu Questions

OCD

Q:

1. Mujhe lagbhag chaar saal se OCD ki problem hai. Shuruwaat mein toh mai toh bilkul pagal jaise hogyi thi lekin Allhamdulillah abhi theek hun . Mujhe bohat waswase aaten hai lekin jaise jaise ilm haasil hua toh ye waswase kam ho gye. Lekin meri sabse badi problem ye hai ke jo deen ko lekar aur Allah ko lekar jo khyaalaat aatein the wo abb bhi aatein hain . Agar main inke baare zyaada sochti hun toh ye aur zyaada badd jatein hain aur jab ignore karti hun toh lagta ke mujhe inki parwaah nhi hai aur ye sab main jaanboojh kar soch rahi hun. Pehle ye sab soch kar mai bohat roti thi lekin jab se ye pata chala hai ke ye sab shaitaan ke wajah se hain tab se mai nhi roti lekin bohat bura lagta hai aur tarhat mein doubt rahta hai?

2. Kya Islam mein dimaagi beemariyon ko beemari ke tor par dekha jaata hai. Kya ocd ki wajah se aane waale gande khayaalon ki saza hogi jabki wo sab hum zabaan par laana toh dooor hum dil mein bhi uske baare mein nahi sochna chahte kyun ye khayaal bohat bure , gande aur bohat hi zayaada galat hain aur ye sab bohat badi hastiyon ke baare mein hai? Kya Allah paak mujhe iske liye saza denge mai paancho waqt ki namaz bhi padti hun aur Qiraan bhi roz padti hun.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mai ne khwab mai dekha k mri ami ki phopo jo wafat paa chuki hain mry bary mai ami se baat kr rhi hain mai ati hn to mje kehti hain k mai tumary lie kuch lai hn phr mjy achar gosht aur b aik koi khany ki chez dti hain shayad gosht ka he koi salan, mai un se bolti hn k mai kha ln gi phr aankh khul jati hai....or mai ne ap se pochna tha k mushtaba kaam kon se hain?

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mene khawab me dekha k Hazrat Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) bohat khushgawar mood me hy aur unho ny mera bazoo pakra aur wo aur main dono qabrastan jaty hy. Huzur farmaty hy tm yaha ruku main ata hn waha Huzur k betay ki qabar mubarik hoti hy me waha fateha parh k ik jaga k sath lag khara hojata hn pechy say ik sheerr mere kandhy per apny dono pao rakhta hy mgr kuch kehta nae pyar say mou sath lagata hy phr ankh khul jati hy kindly mjhh iski tabeer bta dain .is ka waqt fajar ki namz k bad ka hy

Shohar ke saat rehna

Q: Mai ik ansari ldki hun.ur ik kunjra ldke k sath me iK computer center PR parate thi .mere ghr walon se bi uske ladke se achche talukat bn gye.fir hm dono ne apne abbu ki razamandi lekr dono ne partnership me center khol liya.ur wahi PR ik sath parate huge hum logon me muhabbat paida ho gyi .WO 5 waqt namazi tha ur bhi achchi khubiyan this .fir hm logon ne nikah kr liya.ldke ki ma ki majudgi me.jbki Maine apne parents ko nhi btaya that.merit umer us wqt 28 sal ki thi.nikah k 9 mahine k bad.Maine apne ghr walon ko bta diya .to mere ghr walon ne talaq ka dabao bnaya .mgr mere shouhr ne court me notice de di .tb mere walid ne 3 sal k bad rukhsati ka time diya.ab WO us bat se mukr rage hai.ur mera shuhr bahut presan hai.kyunki unki walida sirf bachi thi unka bhi intekal ho chuka hai.mera shouhr mujhse chale ane ko kah raha hai .ur meri ma ne dhodh Na maf krne ki dhamki di hai AGR mai apne shuhr k pas gyi to...mai talaq nhi Lena chahti hun.ur ghr wale sirf ur sirf biradri ki wajah se aisa kr rahe hai.mere abbu yahan tk mere shouhr she kah diye hai ki tum dosri shadi kr lo ya talaq de do. ..meri ghr pr koi bat nhi sun raha na hi kahi jane ki ijazat hai......allah ke waste koi mswara den.mai apne shuhr k bagair nhi rah skti hun.

Shaadi se pehle haraam ta'alluq

Q: Men kuch sawal puchna chahte hn per muje nae maloom kahan jaon, kis se puchun. Ya kya karun. Ajeeb muskil men hn, kuch samajh nae aata. Jab men bohat choti the to mere cousin ne khelne ke bahane muje room men band kar lia tha aur touch krne ke koshish k.. Balke honton ko kia..men bohat ro rahe the, WO muje jane nae de raha tha. Phr mama aa geye darwaze per aur usku door open Karna perha, mama ne muje dekhte he marna start kar dia aur kaha ke kya kar rahe the etc.but mene to bohat koshish k the us se baghne k per WO mujse kafi bara tha... Ab men 26 saal k hn. Magar aj b takleef hoti ha ke kisi ne mera sath nae dia.muje nae pata us cousin ne mere sath rape kia ya nae magar dar lagta ha ke kehe Allah muje saza na den. Men mama se hamesha darte rahe..ek boy se pyar kar beathe, sucha shadi karen g.mama ko pata chal gea, WO samjhi men gandi hn, WO rone lage.mene unku chup karwane k koshish k per kahne lage acha hota tm mar jate..men bohat dukhi ho geye. Mene mama ka dil rakhne ko Quran pak pe kasam khai ke men ayenda aesa nae karun g..mama ne kaha ke Facebook p account nae banao g.ab muje ek account k zarurat ha.men kya karun?mere madad Karen.mera koe nae siwaye Allah k. Baki mujse nafrat krte hen. Men Allah ko naraz nae kar sakte. Mama ne bohat ajeeb kasam uthwai..kafi batun ka kaha ke nae karo g.muje to yad b nae.Bohat preshan hn. Har wakat suicide ka suchte hn.

Hadith verification

Q: Kia ye hadees sahi hy? Agar sahi hy to kitaab ka hawala inayat farmaain, shukria.

Aap salalaho alaihi wasalam ne farmaya: jis ne wazu karne sy pehly kalimah parh lia Allah wazu ke har qatry par ek farishta khara kr dega jo qayamat tk kalimah parhta rahy ga jis ka sawab kalimah parhny waly ko or sub ko btany waly ko milta rahy ga.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Kal rat mainy ek khuwab mai mery marhoom chacha ko dekha. ham unse bht achi tarah mil rahy the. khuwab k beach ka hissa ziada yaad nahi lekin akhir mai meny dekha k unka janaza hai jo ek sehan main hai, ba'zahir na to khana kaba nazar a rha hai na hi kuch or lekin yeh ehsaas hai k us waqt ham makka main hain or khana kaba ke ksi pichly hissy main hain jahan se kaba shareef nazar nahi a rha. mai iski tabeer janna chah rha hun