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Waalid hamesah na khush rehta he

9 years ago By admin

Q: Mujhe apki islah ki zarurat he hr raste se mayus hoke apko msg kr rhi hu me taleem ki class me b jati hu esa b nhi he ki waha sb sunke mere dil me nhi utrta sb sunke bohot khauf ata he mere abbu mujhse hmesha na khush rehte he ye mamla bchpan se he unhe pehli aulad beta chahie tha ek wjah ye b rhi me ye nai kehti me sahi hu lekin me dil se kitni koshish krti hu tb b kbi aajtk esa nai hua ki me unke dil me jgah bna pai hu Kbi kehte he tmhari aaj tk shadi nai hui ye tumhe sza hi to mili hui he tumhe itna pdaya tmne wesi koi job nai ki jo pdai kamyab hoti yaa mera bojh km hota itna kmaya hota kbhi ye ki tmhari surat acchi nai he koi rishta nai lata wo un bato pe b naraz hote he jo me kisi or k abbu ko kehte hue nai sunti me unhe kuch pka k du unke lie kuch kru uspe b gussa krte he me b gandi hu me manti hu mujhse brdasht nhi hota me hr namaz me niyat krti hu allah se dua krti hu mujhe mere maa baap ka farmabrdar bna de magar na mujme brdasht aati he na unki narazgi jati he Me ye ykin krti hu unki bddua se meri ye duniya b brbad he wo b ho jaegi chahe me 5 waqt namaz pdlu magar mujhe tb b mayusi milegi yhi soch k lgta he jb wo khush nhi to namaz pdke b meri qubul nhi ho rhi sb bekar he wo mere taleem me jane ko b kehte he tu kitni namaz pdle kamyabi mil jae to kahiyo jahannum me hi le jaegi teri zuban tujhe ese kehte he to mujhse raha nhi jata me bol deti hu ki aap bete ko itna kyu nhi datte mere hr kaam se naraz kyu hote ho Aap btae me kya kru or kya ese me meri koi b ibadat mujhe jahannum se bcha paegi yaa sb zaya ho raha he dil nai lgta namaz me b kese bchu me sbse kya Allah tala mujhe maaf kr dega kya sch me mujhe kbhi kamyabi nhi milegi shadi k baad b dukh hi milega?

Khwaab ki ta'beer

9 years ago By admin

Q: Mufti gi, me muje zayada dream yaad nae lakin dream ya ta ka ma car ma hoo aur mera sath Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) sath, muje feel howa ka mera sath aur ma kisi aur planet ma hoo koi dosri duniya ma. Hum jesay jeeps aur log tae aur phr ma masjid ma gaya aur wudu kar raha hoo aur namaz ho ri hai esa lag ra ta ma wudu ma bhouth tym laga ra hoo. Aur log jaha ra namaz ka liya bas etna yaad hai.

Kinaayah talaaq

9 years ago By admin

Q: My question is regarding talaq-e-kinaayah.

1) Husband and wife separated after living together for 3 and a half months, based on the marriage not being consummated. Wife went back to her parents’ home situated in another country to which the husband had no objection, infact encouraged some time apart. A month after the separation there was a heated argument between the husband and the wife’s family, which ended with the husband messaging the wife “I have nothing to say to you anymore, may Allah show the one who has wronged”. (It is also noteworthy that a week prior to this, the wife had asked the husband if he wished to continue with the marriage and his response was silence) Two weeks after the argument, the husband’s father openly admitted to the wife’s father and their common relatives on several occasions that the husband did not intend to carry on with the marriage and wants to give talaq. Upon being asked to give talaq, he said he wants the wife to ask for talaq and will divorce at a later stage. Later that evening, over the final whatsapp conversation between the husband and wife, the husband told the wife “take care and bye forever, I wish I never see you again….” And “…we will soon be na mahrams” After this encounter, the husband has blocked all contact with the wife and has had no contact ever since. The husband contacted the Home Office UK and informed them that the marriage was no longer subsisting with no intention of living together as spouses. Based on this, the wife’s spousal visa was cancelled and a notice was sent to the wife by the Home Office. The husband’s family asked for the gold back which was given to the wife as a gift. On one hand they claim that since the marriage no longer exists, they have a right to receive the gold back. On the other hand, they claim that talaq has not gone through as it was not explicitly given by the husband. Kindly clarify if marriage is over based on the kinaya words said and no intention of continuing with marriage.

2) If yes, Is this considered Talaq-e-bain or raji’?

3) Will wife’s Iddah begin from the time the kinaya words were uttered by the husband or from the time the wife found out she was divorced, and what to do in such a situation regarding the iddah term?

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