Urdu Questions

Online qurbaani

Q: Kiya online qurbaani jaiz he ke nahi? Jaisa ke mene apni qurbani ke hisse ke paise kisi organization ko bhejwa diye. Is tarah karne se qurbani ho jayegi ke nahi?

Biwi ko maloom nahi tha ke shohar pehle shaadi karchuke

Q: Meri shaadi ko derh saal hogaya he aur ek beti bhi he. Mujhe ab pata chala he ke 4 saal pehle mere shohar ne ek shaadi ki parents ke zor dene par. Phr 6 mahene bad talaaq hogayi jis se biwi ka darja bhi dia gaya jab ke wo mere sath relation me 5 saal se he. Agar mujhe pata hota to me shaadi na karti is darr se aur bataya mujhe dhoke se shaadi kar li jab ke agar mujhse relation me na hote to wo shadi bhi nibha dete to kiya meri shaadi jaiz he?

Teesri haidh khatam hone par rujoo

Q: Mene doosra nikaah kiya huwa he. Mene ghar wale ko nahi bataya, sirf apni pehli biwi ko bataya. Wo nahi maan rahi thi. Kuch aise haalat huwe ke mene us se ek talaaq de di. Wo apni mekay chali gayi. Us ke baad mene us se bohot manaya he ke ghar aa jao. Wo kehti he ke meri sulah he lekin me abhi nahi aana chahti is baat ko 3 month ho gaye he. Me ye pochna chahta hu ke kiya ek talaaq dene se 3 maah tak ruju na kiya jaye to talaaq pakki ho jati he ya nahi? Jab ke meri wife keh rahi he ke hamari koi larai nahi hamari sulah he.

Tafweez-e-talaaq

Q: Aksar larai jhagre me me apne shohar se talaaq ka mutalaba karti thi to wo kehte the ke tum bol me kehti thi nahi, mere bolne se kuch nahi hota, aurat ke bolne se nahi hoti to wo kehte the nahi aurat ke bolne se bhi ho jati he. Me kehti thi nahi aurat ke bolne se nahi hoti to wo kehte the tum bol do tumhare bolne se bhi ho jaye ge. Phir larai khatam ho jati thi phir wapis kisi din jhgara hota tha wapis same alfaz hum istimaal karte the to ab jitni bar bhi unho ne yeh alfaz kahe to talaaq ka haq har bar temporary tafeez huwa ya nahi? Kiyun ke unho ne kabhi bhi hamesha ya jab chahe ka lafz istimaal nahi kiya tha to har baar talaaq ka haq temporary tafeeez huwa ya na?

Doosre wariseen ko rent dena

Q: Hamare walid sahib 2010 main intiqal furma gayi thee. 2013 main court ne wariseen nominate kar di thee. Hum 2 bhai 2 behne aur walida. Hum ne koyi bhi property taqseem nahi ki he.

Jis ghar me me, mera bhai aur walida rehte he, kiya us ghar me jab tak hum rahenge kiya us ghar ka rent behno ko hume dena parega?

Mahr kis ki zimme daari he?

Q: Meri shaadi ko eight years hogaye he aur 3 bache he. Mera mehr mere susar jo mere chacha bhi he unho ne mera mehr lakh rupees mehr tay kiya tha baqada 30 logo ke darmiyan. Hamara taluq Azad Kashmir se he lekin hamari puri life Karachi me hi guzri ha to hum waha ja kar settle nahi hona chahti thi. Ye sab baate hum ne engagement wale din sab ke saamne ki thi or chacha ka business Karachi me hi settled he to unho ne yehi kaha tha ke koi zabardasti nahi hogi gaoun jane ke liye.

Phir two years theek guzar gaye shaadi ka time aaya phir mere furniture or baqi saman ki baat huwi to chacha yaha rakhne ko razi na huwe yani mere liye koyi room rent aur nahi liya (wo already rent pe choti se portion me rehte the) aur ye zid laga ki ke saaman Kashmir jayega to hi shaadi hogi warna rishta khatam. Apne bete se bhi kaha ke tum inko mana kariye me 20 din me apni sali se tumhare shadi karwadunga (ye note kijiyega ke mere chacha ne dusri shadi ki huwe he biwi ke marny ke baad) baat bohot bihar gayi sab relatives ne unhe jirga me bhi bulaya ta ke rishta khatam karne ki waja samjha lekin wo nahi aye or unki baat na maane par mere shoher ko ghar se galiyan de kar nikaldiya unke pass kuch nahi tha phir Allah ki madad se itna huwa ke this bohot saaman ke sath meri shadi hogayi lekin mehr ada na huwa. Mere husband bohot ache he mashAllah.

Ab mehr ka masla he ke wo mere susar ne tay kiya tha, kiya ye gunah chacha ko hoga ya mere husband ko?